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To think people eat one heck of a lot!

283 replies

AppleWhiskers · 10/04/2025 21:23

See it all over, online, on here, in real life.
People have to have three pretty substantial meals per day or they think they'll starve or not get enough nutrients.
A good amount of people, men especially, think a cold meal or salad based meal is not a real meal, or anywhere near enough to pass as one.
If it isn't huge, or hot, people often think it isn't value for money.

It isn't uncommon to hear 'rabbit food' or such when people choose cold or salad based meals.

Myself, I love both, and eat a warm meal most evenings, so don't have much of a horse in the race, but I do think it's a thing.
Not sure how other cultures go about it, would be interesting to find out.

Is it a UK specific thing, to always need a large hot meal several times per day?
A typical example is:
Porridge and berries of full breakfast english style etc for breakfast.
Baked potato with tuna, or salad for lunch, or soup with whatever and copious amounts of pulses.
Then cottage pie or something equally large for dinner.
Then, often, a later meal, give or take.
And a lot of us are still hungry after this, or snack in between, so WTF is going on!?

OP posts:
HowManyDucks · 10/04/2025 21:26

???

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 21:28

Why did it take you 3 edits before you published your post?

PoorUncleBarry · 10/04/2025 21:29

I don't know nor have I ever met anyone who eats like that. I know "morbidly obese" people and slim people but none of them require 4 meals and snacks :/ In fact, most people don't seem to bother with breakfast anymore due to the chaotic nature of life with 2 jobs and children.

AquaPeer · 10/04/2025 21:29

What the fuck are you on about? 😂😭😭😭

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 21:29

The weather looks good tomorrow. Think I might plant out my sweatpeas.

pearbottomjeans · 10/04/2025 21:29

Equally, I could say that everyone I know has no time to eat, eats absolute rabbit food, is health food obsessed, always going on about macros and keto and fasting and ozempic. You see it everywhere, in real life, online, in the media.

I genuinely did do a 20 hour fast the other day accidentally and it wasn’t difficult/unusual for me.

I don’t think I know anyone who has 3 hot meals a day, even DH! He can have a whole pizza for lunch and then a takeaway for dinner, no idea how!

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/04/2025 21:30

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 21:29

The weather looks good tomorrow. Think I might plant out my sweatpeas.

I'm going to do my peas.

Maitri108 · 10/04/2025 21:30

I hate the word meal.

LovelyBitOfSquirrrel · 10/04/2025 21:30

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 21:28

Why did it take you 3 edits before you published your post?

Rabbit food does that to you

PrettayGood · 10/04/2025 21:30

I don’t know anyone that eats like that.

MyDarlingWhatIfYouFly · 10/04/2025 21:30

You can see the history, typo corrections, weird thing to ask.

CoastalCalm · 10/04/2025 21:31

I don’t know anyone that has a full English any more than once a week at most for us it’s once a month and usually as an evening meal unless we stay at a hotel then will tuck in

Jellycatspyjamas · 10/04/2025 21:32

Porridge and berries of full breakfast english style etc for breakfast.
Baked potato with tuna, or salad for lunch, or soup with whatever and copious amounts of pulses.
Then cottage pie or something equally large for dinner.

Depending on portion sizes that’s hardly an excessive amount of food, reasonably balanced and nutritious. I’d have the porridge and fruit, soup for lunch possibly with a sandwich and a main meal in the evening.

If anything people competitively undereat on here.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 21:32

I eat a lot.

alwaysdeleteyourcookies · 10/04/2025 21:32

Ah, we haven't had one of these threads for a couple of days.

pimplebum · 10/04/2025 21:32

Well… I am obese so yes I eat heck of a lot
love salads

AquaPeer · 10/04/2025 21:33

Mumtobabyhavoc · 10/04/2025 21:32

I eat a lot.

Fat glutinous diabetes ridden BRITISH person you.

CoastalCalm · 10/04/2025 21:33

And why is a cottage pie deemed large ? Surely that depends on the portion and other veggies ? It’s a healthy meal if made with lean mince and lots of veggies

PoorUncleBarry · 10/04/2025 21:33

@vodkaredbullgirl is there a specific time of year that is best for peas? What is April the best time for? I kill plastic plants so it's a genuine question.

Youaremythtaken · 10/04/2025 21:34

Why are you conflating eating hot food with eating too much?

This is Mumsnet. Home of the massive salad.

AquaPeer · 10/04/2025 21:35

PoorUncleBarry · 10/04/2025 21:33

@vodkaredbullgirl is there a specific time of year that is best for peas? What is April the best time for? I kill plastic plants so it's a genuine question.

I think the most important thing is whether we are talking cooked or raw peas because it matters

peas are full of fibre and delicious I always wonder if it a cultural UK thing, and am interested to see how they deal with them
in other countries

CandyLeBonBon · 10/04/2025 21:35

Only a warm meal? Surely that’s a health hazard?

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/04/2025 21:36

PoorUncleBarry · 10/04/2025 21:33

@vodkaredbullgirl is there a specific time of year that is best for peas? What is April the best time for? I kill plastic plants so it's a genuine question.

March, April I do them in pots in the house then plant them, when they start growing May,June

violetsorrengail · 10/04/2025 21:36

I have sometimes thought that some people are slightly odd about food on here, you can go quite a long time without it without detriment, and there are a lot of threads about not being fed enough/disappointing meals where I think I really wouldn't care about not getting sides at an Indian (for example) enough to make a big deal of it.

Snowjive2 · 10/04/2025 21:36

Maitri108 · 10/04/2025 21:30

I hate the word meal.

This. And with the word “warm” in front of it…boak.

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