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To think people eat one heck of a lot!

283 replies

AppleWhiskers · 10/04/2025 21:23

See it all over, online, on here, in real life.
People have to have three pretty substantial meals per day or they think they'll starve or not get enough nutrients.
A good amount of people, men especially, think a cold meal or salad based meal is not a real meal, or anywhere near enough to pass as one.
If it isn't huge, or hot, people often think it isn't value for money.

It isn't uncommon to hear 'rabbit food' or such when people choose cold or salad based meals.

Myself, I love both, and eat a warm meal most evenings, so don't have much of a horse in the race, but I do think it's a thing.
Not sure how other cultures go about it, would be interesting to find out.

Is it a UK specific thing, to always need a large hot meal several times per day?
A typical example is:
Porridge and berries of full breakfast english style etc for breakfast.
Baked potato with tuna, or salad for lunch, or soup with whatever and copious amounts of pulses.
Then cottage pie or something equally large for dinner.
Then, often, a later meal, give or take.
And a lot of us are still hungry after this, or snack in between, so WTF is going on!?

OP posts:
Teateaandmoretea · 10/04/2025 22:06

Is that you mil? One day you will understand that food being hot doesn’t mean it has more calories. Or maybe not.

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 22:07

Bs0u416d · 10/04/2025 22:05

I do the same thing every year. Carried away by some fickle March sunshine, only to stand, lonely and dejected, in a frost ridden wasteland of my own making. My nursery still has them in too, it's all good.

A frost ridden wasteland of my own making might be hie I’m spending Easter this year. Never mind, I shall have DDog, roast lamb and wine Grin

ItsCalledAConversation · 10/04/2025 22:07

Not all big meals are hot though. Not all hot meals are big. I don’t think soup, however hot, no matter how many pulses, ever counts as a big meal. Ever.

Bs0u416d · 10/04/2025 22:07

glittereyelash · 10/04/2025 22:05

OK but what's your point?

It's unclear isn't it. Especially when her examples were very moderate, nutritional meals 🤣. Something about hating warm food? Dunno.

ladyofshertonabbas · 10/04/2025 22:07

I dunno, three homemade meals a day sounds really healthy compared to loads of processed snacks and grazing on crap all day, I wouldn't think that diet was an issue.

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 22:08

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 22:07

A frost ridden wasteland of my own making might be hie I’m spending Easter this year. Never mind, I shall have DDog, roast lamb and wine Grin

*how

PinkyFlamingo · 10/04/2025 22:08

You seem obsessed with the words "large" and "big". No idea how you know the size of people's portions mind you.

SiobhanSharpe · 10/04/2025 22:09

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 22:05

What does “have at it” mean? They are English words but it’s not a phrase I’ve come across before and I read a lot, and not just t’internet.

It means go for it. Slightly old fashioned.

Lourdes12 · 10/04/2025 22:10

People eat too much food and too large portions. Then they moan about their weight

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 22:10

PinkyFlamingo · 10/04/2025 22:08

You seem obsessed with the words "large" and "big". No idea how you know the size of people's portions mind you.

Quite odd isn’t it? Perhaps the Op has done extensive research measuring other people calorie intake and their calorific intake.

Growlybear83 · 10/04/2025 22:10

But people on Mumsnet make a chicken last for at least two weeks!

doubleshotcappuccino · 10/04/2025 22:11

Can’t be eating that much if we can get a week of meals out of one chicken #thisismumsnet

OnTheSick · 10/04/2025 22:11

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 21:29

The weather looks good tomorrow. Think I might plant out my sweatpeas.

Hilarious I found this on this thread but....Do you actually think we're safe to plant them out? Mine are going good on the kitchen windowsill but I'm nervous to get them out!

SeventeenClovesOfGarlic · 10/04/2025 22:12

AppleWhiskers · 10/04/2025 21:48

Not concerned about anyone's eating patterns.
Just notice a thing when I see it.
It's not my problem, but maybe it's why we are getting too thin as a culture !

Big hot meals are a thing, several times a day, or people claim to be starving and have to go on a weird exclusionary diet.

I know I'm not the only one who thinks this, only have to see other threads.
Wanna pretend this is odd? Have at it!

Is the thread about people eating too much warm food, a mysterious culture of people being too thin, people being starving, people being on specific diets?
So confusing.

doubleshotcappuccino · 10/04/2025 22:12

@Growlybear83no way ! At the same time you and I both thought .. massive chicken !!

crackofdoom · 10/04/2025 22:12

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 10/04/2025 22:01

With warm in front of it it beats picky tea for the 🤮 factor

No one has said rabbit food in reference to a salad since 1987, unless they are over 90 or an actual rabbit

For me it's "snack", particularly a "tasty" one. Aaaaargh...

StRochSixEight · 10/04/2025 22:12

What does the food temperature have to do with anything? You could have a hot bowl of porridge or a cold bowl of overnight oats that were pretty much the same nutritionally speaking. And loads of other examples obviously. This OP is demented.

BatchCookBabe · 10/04/2025 22:12

Growlybear83 · 10/04/2025 22:10

But people on Mumsnet make a chicken last for at least two weeks!

2 weeks? Ha ha. I can make a chicken last 2 months!

OutwiththeOutCrowd · 10/04/2025 22:13

I wish we could all just sprout green fronds and photosynthesize as we go. That would remove a lot of the angst around food and free up time for other stuff too.

CassiasC · 10/04/2025 22:13

Baked potato with tuna, or salad for lunch, or soup with whatever and copious amounts of pulses.

I’m struggling to imagine a typical lunch including salad or soup and a mound of lentils or beans on the side. Not exactly a typical boots meal deal, is it? Or do you mean salads and soups made from pulses? Either way, I’m not seeing the problem here. I doubt many people are eating chickpeas in quantities that could harm their health.

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 22:13

SiobhanSharpe · 10/04/2025 22:09

It means go for it. Slightly old fashioned.

Thank you. I speak English and understand a dialect that has its roots in Anglo-Saxon, am fairly well read and have never come across that saying before. That’s supposing I’m not losing my marbles in my dotage.

WhenYouSayNothingAtAll · 10/04/2025 22:13

I’m a Fatty McFatFace and only eat one hot meal a day. Make of that what you will.

WinterBones · 10/04/2025 22:14

AppleWhiskers · 10/04/2025 21:23

See it all over, online, on here, in real life.
People have to have three pretty substantial meals per day or they think they'll starve or not get enough nutrients.
A good amount of people, men especially, think a cold meal or salad based meal is not a real meal, or anywhere near enough to pass as one.
If it isn't huge, or hot, people often think it isn't value for money.

It isn't uncommon to hear 'rabbit food' or such when people choose cold or salad based meals.

Myself, I love both, and eat a warm meal most evenings, so don't have much of a horse in the race, but I do think it's a thing.
Not sure how other cultures go about it, would be interesting to find out.

Is it a UK specific thing, to always need a large hot meal several times per day?
A typical example is:
Porridge and berries of full breakfast english style etc for breakfast.
Baked potato with tuna, or salad for lunch, or soup with whatever and copious amounts of pulses.
Then cottage pie or something equally large for dinner.
Then, often, a later meal, give or take.
And a lot of us are still hungry after this, or snack in between, so WTF is going on!?

why in your eyes is porridge and fruit 'a lot of food'??

i eat that every morning, and i can confirm, as its pre-portioned, its a whole 206 calories... such a HUGE amount of food. gee, no wonder i'm obese.

Toptotoe · 10/04/2025 22:14

vodkaredbullgirl · 10/04/2025 21:30

I'm going to do my peas.

My husband and I had this discussion earlier. He thinks it’s still too soon. I say not. I may have to check out what Monty has to say about it.

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 22:14

BatchCookBabe · 10/04/2025 22:12

2 weeks? Ha ha. I can make a chicken last 2 months!

My DSIL once suggested a chicken would feed 10 at an Easter lunch Grin