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To think people eat one heck of a lot!

283 replies

AppleWhiskers · 10/04/2025 21:23

See it all over, online, on here, in real life.
People have to have three pretty substantial meals per day or they think they'll starve or not get enough nutrients.
A good amount of people, men especially, think a cold meal or salad based meal is not a real meal, or anywhere near enough to pass as one.
If it isn't huge, or hot, people often think it isn't value for money.

It isn't uncommon to hear 'rabbit food' or such when people choose cold or salad based meals.

Myself, I love both, and eat a warm meal most evenings, so don't have much of a horse in the race, but I do think it's a thing.
Not sure how other cultures go about it, would be interesting to find out.

Is it a UK specific thing, to always need a large hot meal several times per day?
A typical example is:
Porridge and berries of full breakfast english style etc for breakfast.
Baked potato with tuna, or salad for lunch, or soup with whatever and copious amounts of pulses.
Then cottage pie or something equally large for dinner.
Then, often, a later meal, give or take.
And a lot of us are still hungry after this, or snack in between, so WTF is going on!?

OP posts:
ghostyslovesheets · 10/04/2025 21:52

Oh I have three meals a day but comprising of mainly dust 🙄 no wonder we have a crisis in the NHS 🙄 etc

DeffoNeedANameChange · 10/04/2025 21:55

I eat a lot. Food is delicious. I'm slightly overweight. Sky hasn't fallen down.

Crikeyalmighty · 10/04/2025 21:55

But if you had the porridge with berries , the jacket potato with some protein ( tuna, cottage cheese etc) and cottage pie with some veg - that’s a bit like the diet I’m doing- it’s hardly an enormous amount of food or unhealthy

lurkingfromhome · 10/04/2025 21:55

ghostyslovesheets · 10/04/2025 21:52

Oh I have three meals a day but comprising of mainly dust 🙄 no wonder we have a crisis in the NHS 🙄 etc

Dust is VERY filling, don't you find? All that carb-laden er ... dustiness. No wonder we're in the grip of an obesity crisis.

Personally speaking, one sniff of a lettuce leaf and I'm good for the next six months.

Sandsnake · 10/04/2025 21:56

I’m not a name changer but I if I was then my next one would definitely be ‘Copiousamountsofpulses’.

Bs0u416d · 10/04/2025 21:56

I planted my sweet peas out too early and they're dead. They're dead 😭.

ghostyslovesheets · 10/04/2025 21:57

lurkingfromhome · 10/04/2025 21:55

Dust is VERY filling, don't you find? All that carb-laden er ... dustiness. No wonder we're in the grip of an obesity crisis.

Personally speaking, one sniff of a lettuce leaf and I'm good for the next six months.

You are right of course I am a fat dust filled pig and should pay triple tax for my selfish NHS damaging behaviour - but still a whole leaf 🤔 I bet you could shift a stone or two

BatchCookBabe · 10/04/2025 21:58

All the LOLz. You have too much time on your hands @AppleWhiskers 😆

DoNoTakeNo · 10/04/2025 21:58

AquaPeer · 10/04/2025 21:29

What the fuck are you on about? 😂😭😭😭

This sums it up perfectly! Wtf???

NorthernLights5 · 10/04/2025 21:59

lurkingfromhome · 10/04/2025 21:55

Dust is VERY filling, don't you find? All that carb-laden er ... dustiness. No wonder we're in the grip of an obesity crisis.

Personally speaking, one sniff of a lettuce leaf and I'm good for the next six months.

I personally find dust wayyyy to sweet. A diet of water and fresh air is much healthier.

NewsdeskJC · 10/04/2025 21:59

Is that you Mum?

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 21:59

Sandsnake · 10/04/2025 21:56

I’m not a name changer but I if I was then my next one would definitely be ‘Copiousamountsofpulses’.

I’m a regular name changer but somehow this one doesn’t work for me. Maybe too much hot air involved?

NorthernLights5 · 10/04/2025 22:00

ghostyslovesheets · 10/04/2025 21:57

You are right of course I am a fat dust filled pig and should pay triple tax for my selfish NHS damaging behaviour - but still a whole leaf 🤔 I bet you could shift a stone or two

"Dust filled pig" 😂😂😂

Kingsleadhat · 10/04/2025 22:00

Maitri108 · 10/04/2025 21:30

I hate the word meal.

So do I. What is it about that word?

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 10/04/2025 22:01

Maitri108 · 10/04/2025 21:30

I hate the word meal.

With warm in front of it it beats picky tea for the 🤮 factor

No one has said rabbit food in reference to a salad since 1987, unless they are over 90 or an actual rabbit

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 22:01

Bs0u416d · 10/04/2025 21:56

I planted my sweet peas out too early and they're dead. They're dead 😭.

Commiserations. I would he genuinely gutted. Our local Nursery had some in last week so all might not be lost?

ANDisayWhatsGoingon · 10/04/2025 22:02

Snowjive2 · 10/04/2025 21:36

This. And with the word “warm” in front of it…boak.

Haha, I want hot food god damn you, not warm!

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 22:03

I am total daredevil. I have a courgette plant in one of the raised beds under a bell jar. Will it live? Will it die?

Sweetpeas in for three weeks but not visibly doing anything. Hopefully there is lots of root action under the surface.

Lillers · 10/04/2025 22:04

What are people supposed to eat? An oat for breakfast, a leaf for lunch and then think about a potato for dinner?

Honestly I don’t anybody who eats the way you’ve described. Mostly because I don’t think anyone has time to.

Lourdes12 · 10/04/2025 22:04

I think it's to do with the climate. In cooler climate you need need warmer food plus meat and dairy are more insulating. In warmer climates you don't feel like eating hot food as much

ANDisayWhatsGoingon · 10/04/2025 22:05

fgswhywouldIdothat · 10/04/2025 22:03

I am total daredevil. I have a courgette plant in one of the raised beds under a bell jar. Will it live? Will it die?

Sweetpeas in for three weeks but not visibly doing anything. Hopefully there is lots of root action under the surface.

Maybe you could harvest your courgettes and add them into one of your huge warm '3 meals a day!' 😂

Bs0u416d · 10/04/2025 22:05

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 22:01

Commiserations. I would he genuinely gutted. Our local Nursery had some in last week so all might not be lost?

I do the same thing every year. Carried away by some fickle March sunshine, only to stand, lonely and dejected, in a frost ridden wasteland of my own making. My nursery still has them in too, it's all good.

BunnyRuddington · 10/04/2025 22:05

AppleWhiskers · 10/04/2025 21:48

Not concerned about anyone's eating patterns.
Just notice a thing when I see it.
It's not my problem, but maybe it's why we are getting too thin as a culture !

Big hot meals are a thing, several times a day, or people claim to be starving and have to go on a weird exclusionary diet.

I know I'm not the only one who thinks this, only have to see other threads.
Wanna pretend this is odd? Have at it!

What does “have at it” mean? They are English words but it’s not a phrase I’ve come across before and I read a lot, and not just t’internet.

glittereyelash · 10/04/2025 22:05

OK but what's your point?

OppsUpsSide · 10/04/2025 22:06

I agree people seem to eat a lot. And feed their children even more!