To tell you about my night out with Dh. I'm fuming.

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I've been ill for 3 weeks in hospital. Home and able to go out out. The night went like this:
We went to a bar with music. I made a throw away joke/comment. Dh got the arse about it and spent 1.5 hours going on about it. Saying he needed space. And that i clearly have issues with him and that i need to say what these are. I said there are no issues. He said I'm a liar. He then preceeded to say I was drunk and he knew what was coming next, as its always what I say when drunk, and he was totally fed up over what I was allegedly about to say. I was gobsmacked. Apparently I always harp on about the same thing when drunk and i always say "I know all about you but I'm not prepared to say what it is I know". I don't say this and never have done in 20 years together. He clearly thinks differently
We then went into a different bar, a cab drive away. They had a live band. I was dancing. He said "are you really that naive I just want to punch him" I was like "what you talking about" he said "your so naive just f off and dance". Lots of other other similar comments like this from him through out the eve. We then left and started walking.
He said he wanted food on the way home and said "we will get a home delivery". I said do you mean a delivery at home ( we were almost at the food shop) he said "are you completely stupid why would we do that when we're at the food shop". He was v drunk but denied this.
I just feel like he has treated me like shit all night

Consider yourself firmly judged OP.

I wonder if the Op remembers she wrote this thread, as she hasn't returned since she sobered up.

Maybe she'll be back with another drunken argument story involving a pavement...

Im sure you’ve had lots of advice, I haven’t read all the comments. Some feedback, you seem to enjoy the drama and saying you would be better off dead on the internet is a highly inappropriate thing to sling around. Maybe you could consider that your troubles aren’t helped by your immaturity and start to stand up to your DH in a calm and mature fashion. You can keep your dignity and calm and wait until he’s sober and sit down for a proper chat. Repeat until you’ve both gained insight and learned not to push each other’s buttons when you’re upset. Best of luck.