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Is he entitled to be pissed off with me

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Tootiredmummyof3 · 29/01/2025 08:25

This morning wake up to a arsy text from DH. Basically pissed off with me because I didn't give him oral laser night. I was feeling really dizzy last night and still don't feel great this morning.
I didn't reply but then text me 3 minutes later saying he'd taken the car to work. He knew it wasn't well last night and he didn't check if I felt up to walking to school or ask me to drop him off at work.
I texted him thanks for taking the car when you know I'm dizzy. No reply because what can he say.
I know I'm not being unreasonable to be annoyed with him but is he also unreasonable to be pissed off with me?

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millymoo1202 · 30/01/2025 15:58

This is such a sad read, you are honestly going to put up with this? He resents you being at home and sees sex as control over you and that you are lesser than him. Just another abusive man with a trapped woman

Princessfluffy · 30/01/2025 16:25

Ewww what a prince.

Derbee · 30/01/2025 16:42

If you can’t see it for yourself, could you see it for your daughter?

Imagine your daughter having sex when she doesn’t want to, because otherwise she will have to endure nastiness and a bad atmosphere?

Imagine your daughter being forced to give oral sex if she wants access to the shared car?

Imagine your daughter being brainwashed into thinking she’s in love with her abuser, and not being able to see that it is abuse?

Imagine your daughter thinking that it’s not possible to leave, or get any sort of financial security because her husband won’t allow her to?

Imagine your daughter learning that sex is something that is given or owed to someone, rather than a pleasurable way of sharing true love with someone who respects them?

You are forcing all of this onto your children, or other peoples children if you have sons and they are learning this is normal.

I wish you would call women’s aid and speak to someone about whether this is ok or not.

TheSidewinderSleepsTonite · 30/01/2025 20:51

You're in an abusive and controlling relationship yet you can't see it.

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