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Clorrien · 22/01/2025 10:57

I’m feeling really conflicted and unsure what to do.
A few days ago DD (20) and I had a conversation about the likes of BonnieBlue and Lily Phillips. Mostly talking about how exploitative the porn industry is.
Anyway during the conversation she told me, someone we know has a “popular” onlyfans account. She then went on to tell me it is the daughter of one of my closest friends. The girl in question is 22. DD says she only knows as there is a link in one of her social media bios and a few of them who know her have spoken about it. I’m shocked tbh, this girl is beautiful, extremely intelligent (she got a full ride scholarship for a top US uni), and always seemed very well adjusted. Her family are very normal as well, parents very loving, not bad off financially so she has never wanted for anything. Apparently she uses a pseudonym but that seems beside the point.

Anyway, this girls mum and I talk most days and I’m finding it hard to not tell her, I doubt she knows and if it were my DD I’d want to know so I could protect her.

WIBU to tell my friend? Or is it none of my business.

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Careliz · 31/01/2025 07:44

At 22, I'm not sure what it has to do with her parents anyway?!

She's not a child. Most women on Only fans make enough money to buy a house before they hit a year on there. If I could buy a house by showing some sexy pics, I would!! It's not just sex.

RatalieTatalie · 31/01/2025 08:02

ThoroughlyModernNotMillie · 27/01/2025 20:51

You seriously can't be saying that sex work is equal to any other career that an intelligent educated woman could choose to do? If you are, then you must be one of the most stupid deluded people alive.
Saying that sex work is shameful and not something to be aspired to is not "shaming women", it would be equally shameful if a man did it.
What is appalling in 2025 is that some people, especially women, think that sex work is a valid choice of career. Why do we even bother to send girls to school if you think the careers advisor would tell them that opening your legs on camera and encouraging men to masturbate over what they see is just as valid as being a teacher, doctor, barrister or retail worker.

What’s appalling in 2025 is old women telling young women how to live their lives. Absolutely no one is trying to recruit you into OF. Accept that while it’s something you can’t understand, other people have chosen this perfectly legal way to make money.

They may well also have one of
your acceptable careers blossoming alongside.

Sugarcoldturkey · 31/01/2025 15:50

Careliz · 31/01/2025 07:44

At 22, I'm not sure what it has to do with her parents anyway?!

She's not a child. Most women on Only fans make enough money to buy a house before they hit a year on there. If I could buy a house by showing some sexy pics, I would!! It's not just sex.

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pinkyredrose · 01/02/2025 10:19

MyPinkBalonz · 27/01/2025 02:15

Name one famous or notorious male sex worker?

Seymour Butts. Ron Jeremy. John Holmes. Ben Dover.

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