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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to be sick of threads asking for people's opinions on things, in which the poster gets upset if someone's opinion is not what they want to hear.

196 replies

HereComeTheGirls · 04/05/2008 12:03

Apologies if this has been done a million times before, haven't been on here that long

But aaaaaaargh

Why post asking for opinions then get all huffy if the opinion makes you feel bad or isn't what you want to hear?

Have just encountered this a LOT today and it frankly puts me off posting on any thread which asks for my honest opinion.

Note: I will not be offended by any opinion on this topic

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youknownothingofthecrunch · 04/05/2008 12:04

I completely disagree

MrsMattie · 04/05/2008 12:04

What, you mean like:

What do you think of the name 'Chavisha'?

It's vile.

Boooo hooooo waaaaah

????

HereComeTheGirls · 04/05/2008 12:05

How dare you

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HereComeTheGirls · 04/05/2008 12:05

Yes MrsMattie - then also other posts saying "don't listen to these meanies slagging off your choice of name, they just don't want you to be happy in your lovey life with little Chavisha"

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bergentulip · 04/05/2008 12:05

:0

HereComeTheGirls · 04/05/2008 12:06

the how dare you was directed at youknownothing

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bergentulip · 04/05/2008 12:07

I mean
And... yes, YABU.

You are talking out of your arse.....

HereComeTheGirls · 04/05/2008 12:07

uh oh..I get worried when people say :0 on a thread I post...

Not that you aren't entitled to your opinion

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HereComeTheGirls · 04/05/2008 12:07

and a fine huge arse it is

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Hecate · 04/05/2008 12:12

Yup. I've moaned about this myself, many times . It's because they are not wanting opinions they are wanting confirmation of their opinion. You are supposed to say "I totally agree with you in every aspect of your OP. You are correct and no sane person could possibly disagree with you." They want reassurance, backing up, they may even want to shove a thread with 200 posts agreeing with them right up their partner/mother/friends arse. "Look, everyone knows i'm right!" They are so convinced that they are right, that a post disagreeing with their pov is as big a shock as getting flashed at by the Pope! And by not agreeing with them, they feel you are attacking them and they get arsey.

bergentulip · 04/05/2008 12:14

.....wish I had a smaller arse and bigger boobs..... sigh.

Sorry, felt that YAB soooo U that I would hijack the thread instead and talk about meeeeee.....

pointydog · 04/05/2008 12:14

I don't mind it at all when that happens. That is one of the joys of AIBU threads - the tension, the conflict, the tears, the angst.

FluffyMummy123 · 04/05/2008 12:16

Message withdrawn

BroccoliSpears · 04/05/2008 12:17

Eeew at being flashed at by the pope. He's a wrinkly old man! And I was just about to go and have lunch.

HereComeTheGirls · 04/05/2008 12:19

I don't mind..as long as they are moaning at some other poor sod about their opinion and not moi

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edam · 04/05/2008 12:22

It happens an awful lot. Must be the human condition, being convinced one is right and ignoring all evidence to the contrary.

Although of course I am, right, all the time.

CombustibleLemon · 04/05/2008 12:30

We need an 'I'm right, come and agree with me' board.

HereComeTheGirls · 04/05/2008 12:32

Yes, which we could all then avoid like the plague..or go to and stir people up by disagreeing with them

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HereComeTheGirls · 04/05/2008 12:33

here is one such thread..for anyone who feels like expressing an opinion

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/67/524417?stamp=080504122808

muahahahahah

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HereComeTheGirls · 04/05/2008 12:34

..or just feels like some good ol' argy bargy!!

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HereComeTheGirls · 04/05/2008 12:35

Aww ignore that, I see it has suddenly taken a very reasonable turn

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yorkshirepudding · 04/05/2008 12:37

Message withdrawn

HereComeTheGirls · 04/05/2008 12:38

Well, maybe there could be two boards for either type of post so people could decide where to post

And you are so damn NICE

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tissy · 04/05/2008 12:41

which is why I suggested yesterday that we should have a topic for "I just want a hug not an argument", and those of us who don't do hugs can steer clear!

HereComeTheGirls · 04/05/2008 12:41

Yes that is a good idea!

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