Angry at comment

[Hertsgirl1234]

My husband was on a world do last night with about 8 men and his secretary who is an old acquaintance we have known for years.
my children who are 12 called him at 11.30pm to speak to him. He was so drunk that when he put the phone down he left it up by mistake.

They heard his secretary (friend) say “why don’t you tell them you are out on a work do and you won’t be home til the morning”

They came down to tell me. I am annoyed that she is suggesting he tells his own daughters that, what has it got to do with her what he says to our children? What woman makes snide comments like that?

i am annoyed she has overstepped the mark? Does she think she is some sort of lad? Your thoughts?

Dd3 is at private school and broke up at 12pm on the 13th as did all the other local private schools.

Why are you holding a woman to a different standard than the men she socialised with?
would it be ok if she was a ‘lad’?

Sorry but sounds like she’s clearly his bit on the side

Just to add in, my child has anxiety and if she was awake, panicking at this time and needed to call dad, I’d let her. However, I also know he wouldn’t be too drunk to speak and that likely isn’t the scenario here!