AIBU to feel completely distressed by the viral video of the aftermath of onlyfans worker Lily P 'sleeping with' 100 men?

[MumOfOneAllAlone]

I've tried to word this carefully.

Lily, an onlyfans star, aged 20something I'm guessing, slept with 100 men in one go, as part of a documentary.

Following this, she's on camera crying. She says her eyes hurt as some of the men ejaculated in them, despite her saying no.

My heart is broken for this girl. Im a feminist but I've never thought of sex work as being empowering?

Surely, the empowerment of sex work has failed this poor girl? And surely the 100 men who agreed to do this are criminals???

I'm so angry. You could see in the video that Lily is realising what a mistake this was and is very traumatised.

Anyway, didn't see a thread on this so thought I'd post. My heart goes out to her, and my brain feels very angry at those who failed to protect her.

Sex is a different experience for men and women most of the time, that shouldn't be hard to understand.

I think there's something wrong. And i think once she'd done it, she realised for a moment what a mistake it was and was in tears.

She was someones loved one and she needs serious help, as i would offer to a loved one who got herself in this situation.

but if women want control and full abilities to do as they choose then they also have to consider the risks of what they choose to do

with all due respect thats then the case of i think its a good idea until it was not, but if what other readers have said is true, why in gods name does she want to do it again with more people ???

But then she immediately said she was going to sleep with ten times as many men in one day? Yeah sure, really sounds like she thought it was a mistake. It makes good TV doesn’t it so it was convenient that it was on the documentary. And maybe it makes her seem less of a sociopath which is probably why she did it.

But she's apparently planning on doing it again...

I think you're projecting a huge amount on to her, and assuming a lot about how she feels.

one of the questions is why cannot women be publicly be allowed to showcase they enjoy sex without people auto assuming she was self destructing ?

If women want control and full abilities to do as they choose?????? IF????

The issue here isn't her wanting control, having the ability to choose or considering the risks. It is that she is being judged to a higher standard despite those things.

Because for women, sex is a dirty thing that can only happen behind closed doors

basically mary sunshine and the Victorian era attitudes

The 18 year old virgin young men that her and Bonnie Blue wanted to bonk.

Why has this not been mentioned?

That's the question that you take from this?

Where in all of this do you see a woman enjoying sex?

This woman has really played some of you.

What is your point here? You've not really articulated it.

The 18 year old virgins that another person chooses to film while having sex with have been discussed repeatedly.

I think you brought them up a number of times.

You still haven't engaged with a conversation about the wider causes.

Because the men are disgusting in this scenario and Lily is being exploited.

In all reality, this is a pretty woman who was making money posting pictures and videos of herself, who had a disappointing experience that has made her money, so she's continuing to do that.

well she did chose to do the experiment, why do it if you do not enjoy sex ?

Nope, we haven't been played.

We want to have a bigger conversation than "oooohhhh, nasty woman".

Now you are getting closer to the relevant questions.

Carry on and we might manage an interesting conversation.

@WasThatACorner she made it pretty clear in her video.

She enjoys sex. She decided to have lots of it. She didn't enjoy that. For some reason, she's continuing to do it. Probably for attention.

She mentions it felt like prostitution.

No shit. Maybe it felt like that because that's exactly what it was.

Again, 36,101 people were involved here.

@WasThatACorner nobody forced her to make an only fans. Nobody forced her to start doing it. She chose to. If she now regrets that, it's on her to take a different path.

As she's running "meet and cheat" sessions and aiming to sleep with 1000 men in a day, I'd imagine she didn't actually regret it that much. She said that pretty much the only issue was that her body was sore.

Again, I'm not interested in talking about one individual.

What is going on that 36,101 people are thinking this is a good idea?

Grim.

I haven't seen the video and haven't really followed the story, but based on the little I've heard, I have a hard time feeling much sympathy for someone who chose to do this. It was a monumentally disgusting and stupid idea. She probably got a lot of money as a result of it, but she's debased herself in the process and helped spread degeneracy and societal sickness. The last thing she needs is more attention from the masses.