I know his secret…. Thread 3

[Waffletots]

Starting another thread because the last one is full.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5226374-i-know-his-secret-but-how-do-i-play-this?page=1

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5226809-i-know-his-secret-thread-2?page=1

Thank you so much everyone for your messages, I appreciate them so much and you have truly helped me this past crazy few days to know I have so many people supporting me.
I’ve seen a solicitor this afternoon who has given me some good advice regarding finances and the legalities when it comes to our jointly owned home, a lot to get my head around but I feel a lot more informed now!
I’ve missed two calls from my husband since I last updated, I’m worried he’s going to come to the house to try and speak to me but hoping he may think my brother is still here and not bother!

Fabulous update enjoy your babies op! Sorry dh is still not registering he needs to act differently but I have a feeling you have all you need now x

@Waffletots
Congrats and well done....just look after yourself in the coming few weeks ... as you will well know, baby blues hit us all but remember you are strong and can do this on your own... If that useless excuse of a husband comes sniffing around with his tail between his legs .... send him packing (with the exception of child visitation) but if u must just use him for your own benefits from now on ...
childcare / financial help ??
You deserve so much more than he gave you and some day you will find it ❤️

Congratulations. Welcome to the world, little one. You Mum is an amazing person ❤️

Massive congratulations OP

Congratulations ❤️

Congratulations! Cheering on your brighter and better future as a family of three ❤️

Congratulations on the new baby x

Awww congratulations you absolutely incredible lady 💐 xx

Congratulations! I'm glad your mum was able to be with you and you and baby are doing well. Pick a name that you love for your lovely new baby x

Congratulations - all three of you deserve every happiness!

@Waffletots congratulations you are one amazing woman. Your two DC are lucky to have you. Lean on your lovely family when you need to. They have your back by the sounds of it

Oh, what amazing news! Congratulations! So pleased to know you're all safe and well, surrounded by support, and looking forward to a whole new chapter 🤗 Thank you for taking the trouble to update.

Congratulations 🥂 have you now got one of each or are they both the same?

Congratulations, you amazing woman! Wishing you and your little household comfort and peace 🪷 x

Congratulations! ❤️

So pleased you’re both safe and well! Not surprised he hasn’t suddenly turned around and gained some decency. Imagine making your childbirth about him…. Sigh…

Huge congratulations Waffletots. Delighted to hear your little one is safely here, and that it was nice and quick. Don't share any details - nobody here needs to know.

Your H's behaviour is shocking and appalling in every single way but I am sure you know that. Wishing you all the very best, you and your two beautiful babies xx

Congratulations!

Congratulations!!! So pleased it was all so swift and you have two lovely kids and your brilliant family around you for Christmas 🤗

He has shown you over and over again who he really is.

Wishing you all the very best.

Huge huge congratulations, really felt for you reading through your original post. You’re an inspiration

Congratulations. Wonderful news. ❤️

I am so pleased for you. Don’t forget to take care of yourself too x

Congratulations! What a lovely update.

All the very best with your wonderful new baby.

Congratulations! Well deserved.
Forget DH, you don't need him. You're a warrior!

Congratulations