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I know his secret…. Thread 3

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Waffletots · 10/12/2024 18:35

Starting another thread because the last one is full.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5226374-i-know-his-secret-but-how-do-i-play-this?page=1

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5226809-i-know-his-secret-thread-2?page=1

Thank you so much everyone for your messages, I appreciate them so much and you have truly helped me this past crazy few days to know I have so many people supporting me.
I’ve seen a solicitor this afternoon who has given me some good advice regarding finances and the legalities when it comes to our jointly owned home, a lot to get my head around but I feel a lot more informed now!
I’ve missed two calls from my husband since I last updated, I’m worried he’s going to come to the house to try and speak to me but hoping he may think my brother is still here and not bother!

I know his secret but how do I play this? | Mumsnet

I have been married for five years to who I thought was a wonderful man, we have a child and one on the way. Last night I received a text from his fe...

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MyNewCat · 14/12/2024 22:16

Congratulations @Waffletots!

MovingBird123 · 14/12/2024 22:16

Congratulations you amazing lady!

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 14/12/2024 22:17

My goodness ! what a week you have had !!!

@Waffletots Thank you so much for taking the time to let ' us ' know it all went well and baby is here - congratulations !!!

MaggieBsBoat · 14/12/2024 22:18

Massive congratulations 🙌

Icouldabeenalawyer · 14/12/2024 22:18

Congratulations 🌺

Tiredofallthis101 · 14/12/2024 22:19

Congratulations! Lovely news. I too gain massive strength from looking at my kittle treasures and knowing I will fight until my last breath to keep them safe and happy, no matter what. You don't need him. Make sure you have mum and chocs on hand for day 3/4 post partum when the happy hormones wear off - just in case. Good luck, I'm sure you'll smash it!

FoneyHungus · 14/12/2024 22:21

So happy for you. Stay strong 💪

You are an inspiration. 💐

Greentrilby · 14/12/2024 22:21

@Waffletots congratulations on the safe arrival of your new baby.

I’d like to award you the Mumsnet Woman of the Year award.

frecklejuice · 14/12/2024 22:27

Huge congratulations! ❤️

Youvebeenframed · 14/12/2024 22:36

👏🏻👏🏻 Massive congratulations @Waffletots
You are a real life hero to your kids 👏🏻✊🏻

villagecrafts · 14/12/2024 22:41

Oh that's wonderful news @Waffletots Huge congratulations! x

Blondeshavemorefun · 14/12/2024 22:41

Waffletots · 14/12/2024 21:27

Hi everyone, just a quick update!
Baby is here safely, I won’t say when they were born for obvious reasons or many details. Apart from thankfully it was (very!) quick and I had my mum for support (sadly so quick my sister in law didn’t make it!) but arrived not long after, she was very shocked to see me with a baby on my chest!
My husband has been informed by my family, nothing from him yet in way of asking to see either of our children just the usual “woe is me” messages, no actual explanation or apology but I now know to expect nothing more.
I worried when I had the baby I would feel weak and want our “family unit” back… but looking at my two treasures, I know I can get through anything and we all deserve more, I will never, ever go back.
Thanks so much for all the support, I will post again as and when I can x

Awwww many congrats @Waffletots

Thank you for coming back to update. Sure you have lots of other things to occupy your time now 👶🏼👶🏼👶🏼👶🏼👶🏼

Glad all is with bubs

Sorry dh still being an arse and not asking about kids etx

That should hopefully help you to be strong over the next chapter in your life

Polistock · 14/12/2024 22:43

Wow! Unbelievable!

oopsupsideyourheadisayoopsupsideypurhead · 14/12/2024 22:44

Congratulations. In less than a week your life has gone from one extreme to another. Enjoy these moments of newborn bliss. You are setting a wonderful example to your two children. Onwards and upwards now. I hope you've named the baby what you want and also consider adding your maiden name too!

OneLoyalGreyFish · 14/12/2024 22:45

Congratulations, sending much love to you and your two little ones 🥰

whyayepetal · 14/12/2024 22:49

Oh this is lovely news - congratulations 😀

AgitatedGoose · 14/12/2024 22:52

Massive congratulations on the safe arrival of your new baby and so glad your Mum was with you for the birth. Keep going onwards and upwards and thank you for updating us all.

AcrossthePond55 · 14/12/2024 22:54

@Waffletots

Warm congratulations on your new arrival. Blessings to all of you.

Bask in the glow. Then when you're ready, move forward. Life will be grand for all of you.

CleansUpButWouldPreferNotTo · 14/12/2024 22:57

Waffletots · Today 21:27

Hi everyone, just a quick update!
Baby is here safely

Wonderful news - congratulations to you and your little family of three ❤

friendlycat · 14/12/2024 22:59

Wonderful news. Well well done.

You are a star. ⭐

Daleksatemyshed · 14/12/2024 23:01

Good news @Waffletots , I'm glad your baby's arrived and you're both safe and well.
It's hard to believe your Ex could sink any lower but he really is an idiot. Hopefully your DC take after you 🙂

FarmGirl78 · 14/12/2024 23:02

Aww Congratulations Waffle, and well done on being so strong!! xx

Diddlyumptious · 14/12/2024 23:05

Many congratulations 🎊

Howtobemoreempathetic · 14/12/2024 23:07

Fuck me... you're such an incredibly strong woman. I can't express how much happiness I wish for you, your children and your lovely family x

littlehorsesthatrun · 14/12/2024 23:09

Thank you so much for updating! Congratulations on your gorgeous baby xx

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