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Waffletots · 10/12/2024 18:35

Starting another thread because the last one is full.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5226374-i-know-his-secret-but-how-do-i-play-this?page=1

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5226809-i-know-his-secret-thread-2?page=1

Thank you so much everyone for your messages, I appreciate them so much and you have truly helped me this past crazy few days to know I have so many people supporting me.
I’ve seen a solicitor this afternoon who has given me some good advice regarding finances and the legalities when it comes to our jointly owned home, a lot to get my head around but I feel a lot more informed now!
I’ve missed two calls from my husband since I last updated, I’m worried he’s going to come to the house to try and speak to me but hoping he may think my brother is still here and not bother!

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I have been married for five years to who I thought was a wonderful man, we have a child and one on the way. Last night I received a text from his fe...

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OP posts:
RadFs · 14/12/2024 21:44

Waffletots · 14/12/2024 21:27

Hi everyone, just a quick update!
Baby is here safely, I won’t say when they were born for obvious reasons or many details. Apart from thankfully it was (very!) quick and I had my mum for support (sadly so quick my sister in law didn’t make it!) but arrived not long after, she was very shocked to see me with a baby on my chest!
My husband has been informed by my family, nothing from him yet in way of asking to see either of our children just the usual “woe is me” messages, no actual explanation or apology but I now know to expect nothing more.
I worried when I had the baby I would feel weak and want our “family unit” back… but looking at my two treasures, I know I can get through anything and we all deserve more, I will never, ever go back.
Thanks so much for all the support, I will post again as and when I can x

Congratulations @Waffletots sending you lots of positive energy.

Pipsquiggle · 14/12/2024 21:44

Congratulations!

You are doing magnificently x

Seacatt · 14/12/2024 21:45

I am so happy baby has arrived safely! Lots of love to you all!

IDontLikePinaColadas · 14/12/2024 21:45

Ahhh @Waffletots so many congratulations!!! Sending you so much love and strength you absolute warrior. Your children are so lucky to have a mum like you. Xxx

ChocolateAddictAlways · 14/12/2024 21:45

Wonderful news! Glad you and Baby are well! X

lovealongbath · 14/12/2024 21:46

Congratulations!
I am in awe of your strength 💪

CissOff · 14/12/2024 21:47

Huge congratulations!! You are an absolute warrior! Enjoy these early days as best you can. Thinking of you ❤️

ImTheMidsomerMurderer · 14/12/2024 21:49

Congratulations @Waffletots Lovely news ❤️

I've read on here before, when someone shows you who they really are, believe them! You're H sure has shown you his true self!

I wish you and the kids a wonderful new year, making the best lives for yourselves 💓

Darlingstarlings · 14/12/2024 21:51

Congratulations on the arrival of your beautiful baby. Well done mommy and how lucky are your two babies to have such a wonderful and strong mother in their lives. You've got this and your family are there to support you in every way.

ReadingSoManyThreads · 14/12/2024 21:52

Congratulations @Waffletots I've been thinking of you all yesterday and today and had a real feeling that you'd had the baby. I'm so proud of you, you're a warrior and your children are blessed to have a mum as wonderful as you.

Wishing you continued strength, resilience, and love.

KayVess · 14/12/2024 21:53

Ah congratulations on the arrival of your little one. That’s just lovely news.

WearyAuldWumman · 14/12/2024 21:53

God bless you all. I'm so happy for you.

Desperatelyseekingme · 14/12/2024 21:54

Congratulations op, you are amazing 💐

AnneShirleysNewDress · 14/12/2024 21:55

Huge congratulations waffletots.

Zonder · 14/12/2024 21:57

Congratulations to you!

He really has shown his true colours by not trying to see you or the baby. That's shocking.

Stopandlook · 14/12/2024 21:57

Congratulations- you are an incredible woman and mother 😘

YourWinter · 14/12/2024 21:59

Congratulations OP

JackieQueen · 14/12/2024 21:59

Congratulations! 💐

MrsLeonFarrell · 14/12/2024 22:00

Many many congratulations

TimeConsuming · 14/12/2024 22:00

Congratulations and great job!

You and your little ones ARE a family unit. They’re incredibly lucky to have such a calm, capable and compassionate mother.

I hope all the people you love are able to remind you of it when you need it most.

Onwards. You’ve got this.

12345mummy · 14/12/2024 22:03

Congratulations OP, you sound like one strong Mummy x

GladAllOver · 14/12/2024 22:07

You really do have to admire @Waffletots for her strength in dealing with the awful situation thrust upon her. And all around giving birth too! That man is not worth a tenth of her.
Keep it up!

Whatthechicken · 14/12/2024 22:08

Congratulations and much love to you. You are truly a warrior woman. Your ex never deserved you. You keep that family close and your support network near. You can totally do this.You are setting your kids a wonderful example of strength and grace.

magnummum · 14/12/2024 22:11

Huge congratulations Waffle. Hugs to you, baby and your other little one x

Projectme · 14/12/2024 22:13

Congratulations @Waffletots on the safe arrival of your baby!! Lovely news.

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