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Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim

158 replies

Cartwrightandson · 27/11/2024 06:36

Conor has posted a few times, then deleted, check tatt.le.life thread for the screenshots...but this from Dee is crazy...he went out cheating on you at 8 months pregnant, he's had at least 5 sexual assault claims, he is linked to Irish gangster, he publicly cheated on you several times and poor Nikita was badly bruised and had to have a tampon removed via forceps....will Dee be warning her daughter of men like her father?

Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim
Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim
Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim
Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim
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ThatShyRoseViper · 27/11/2024 06:40

Hardly surprising. Like calls to like.

Namechangeobviously2024 · 27/11/2024 06:43

Is it helpful to keep sharing this stuff?

Namechangeobviously2024 · 27/11/2024 06:51

Another way of looking at it: she has 4 kids. No money. Her horrible partner is extremely horrible and very very wealthy indeed. She must doubt whether she would be safe or ever able to see her kids again if she leaves.

Cartwrightandson · 27/11/2024 06:55

Namechangeobviously2024 · 27/11/2024 06:51

Another way of looking at it: she has 4 kids. No money. Her horrible partner is extremely horrible and very very wealthy indeed. She must doubt whether she would be safe or ever able to see her kids again if she leaves.

I believe due or her own brand endorsements ect she has €15 million of her own

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Namechangeobviously2024 · 27/11/2024 06:57

I stand corrected on the money side of things. If I was her, I'd still be very concerned about safety.

walltowallkents · 27/11/2024 06:58

Cartwrightandson · 27/11/2024 06:55

I believe due or her own brand endorsements ect she has €15 million of her own

I’d say he’d physically harm her, if not kill her, if she attempted to leave. If he is out r*ping random women and being aggressive/violent to them, what do you think he’s doing at home?

Her posts are deluded and so is she, but I’d say she’s probably terrified or at least indoctrinated. She’s someone to be pitied.

romdowa · 27/11/2024 06:59

I feel pity for her. If he's this violent with people he doesn't know, imagine what he's like at home? Nikita has already said that people intimidated her on conors behalf to shut her up. Imagine what they would do to dee if she tried to leave or speak out. She probably has to keep up the pretence for her and her children's safety.

Honeycrisp · 27/11/2024 07:00

Poor kids.

ChocolateTelephone · 27/11/2024 07:02

I hope one day she is able to escape him and attain safety herself. Her comments here are unacceptable, but I still hope that as another victim of that man she can one day be free of him.

Tiredandteasytoday · 27/11/2024 07:02

She sounds deluded

Namechangeobviously2024 · 27/11/2024 07:02

Nikita has already said that people intimidated her on conors behalf to shut her up.

For those that aren't aware, in this case "intimidated" means "set fire to her house and stabbed her partner".

romdowa · 27/11/2024 07:04

Namechangeobviously2024 · 27/11/2024 07:02

Nikita has already said that people intimidated her on conors behalf to shut her up.

For those that aren't aware, in this case "intimidated" means "set fire to her house and stabbed her partner".

Yes thank you I couldn't remember the specific incidents.

Motnight · 27/11/2024 07:05

I have the most awful feeling that something else really awful is going to happen in plain sight. I hope that I am wrong

Snorlaxo · 27/11/2024 07:06

Considering the intimidation that the custom and her boyfriend endured, she can’t leave him for safety reasons. It doesn’t excuse the posts but it’s understandable why she has to kid herself that her h is the victim.

PrincessHoneysuckle · 27/11/2024 07:06

He's just like Diddy

Wooyay · 27/11/2024 07:10

I'm not condoning what she's said here but it's likely she's trying to convince herself more than anyone else because she can't leave.

Any woman who has been in an abusive relationship knows how difficult it is to leave. Now throw in his money and influence, his size, his violence, his personality, his attitude, his fans and followers and hangers on, the violent and shocking intimidation of his victim and her boyfriend and I think family and friends.

Where would she go? She would be recognised anywhere and even if he did nothing he has fans and supporters who still believe him, would they think we'll of a woman who 'stole' his children and left him? How would they express that?

Pottedpalm · 27/11/2024 07:17

ignore it all.

BarbaraHoward · 27/11/2024 07:17

I don't think it's fair to put so much attention on his partner. We have no idea what goes on behind closed doors, and he would be a terrifying man to anger.

What we do know is that Conor McGregor is a rapist scumbag, and Nikita is incredibly brave. Let's just focus on those two rather than placing blame at a woman's door.

Raffaelli · 27/11/2024 07:18

It's a horrible thing to write. Just awful. I do wonder what she's been subjected to also by Conor, though.

CultureAlienationBoredomandDespair · 27/11/2024 07:22

I think it’s very damaging to blame men for all of the bad things that women do. CM is evil but it we have no evidence that Dee stays out of fear, she may love him and enjoy the status that being his partner brings. Her viewpoint about Nikita is hardly likely to be unique. In fact it’s possibly true that she’s a bad mum and behaved badly that weekend. Ultimately though it’s doesn’t matter, noting she did meant that she deserved to be raped.

I’ll be warning my DSs that they should always be receiving enthusiastic consent from any partners and to treat women with respect. If I had DDs I’d be teaching them not to be flattered by fame and to avoid men like CM.

Cartwrightandson · 27/11/2024 07:23

I think there's a real possibility that he abuses her too

Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim
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BarbaraHoward · 27/11/2024 07:25

Right so if you believe there's a strong possibility she's in an abusive relationship, why are you stirring by drawing attention to posts she may have been coerced into making?

Beezknees · 27/11/2024 07:38

I don't feel sorry for her at all. We don't have to just because she's a woman. She's a horrible piece of work and Conor is scum.

Stretchedresources · 27/11/2024 07:42

I hope she has someone good in her life who can help, and hide her, when she needs it.

Wooyay · 27/11/2024 07:52

Beezknees · 27/11/2024 07:38

I don't feel sorry for her at all. We don't have to just because she's a woman. She's a horrible piece of work and Conor is scum.

It's not because she's a woman, it's because he's horrific and if she wants to leave him it will seem impossible to her to do so being in the relationship, it seems impossible to me and I'm on the outside. I'd feel the same way if his partner was a man.