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Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim

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Cartwrightandson · 27/11/2024 06:36

Conor has posted a few times, then deleted, check tatt.le.life thread for the screenshots...but this from Dee is crazy...he went out cheating on you at 8 months pregnant, he's had at least 5 sexual assault claims, he is linked to Irish gangster, he publicly cheated on you several times and poor Nikita was badly bruised and had to have a tampon removed via forceps....will Dee be warning her daughter of men like her father?

Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim

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mathanxiety · 28/11/2024 02:53

Wooyay · 27/11/2024 07:10

I'm not condoning what she's said here but it's likely she's trying to convince herself more than anyone else because she can't leave.

Any woman who has been in an abusive relationship knows how difficult it is to leave. Now throw in his money and influence, his size, his violence, his personality, his attitude, his fans and followers and hangers on, the violent and shocking intimidation of his victim and her boyfriend and I think family and friends.

Where would she go? She would be recognised anywhere and even if he did nothing he has fans and supporters who still believe him, would they think we'll of a woman who 'stole' his children and left him? How would they express that?

Don't forget his gangland friends...

She's more to be pitied than despised imo.

Tiredandteasytoday · 28/11/2024 05:33

ClareBlue · 28/11/2024 02:11

Google Romanian girl abducted and murdered in Dublin. She was an 18 year old Roma begging on OConnel bridge. The trial was a few years ago and the main guy got off. She rang Romania while held captive so we know what actually happened when she was held captive, not what we normally think, happens, because she told her dad, but didn't know where she was being held. You'll need a strong stomach to read the sanitised reporting. These are the guys CM was brought up with and drinks with on a night out. Fortunately they found her mutilated body and she was buried in Timisora her home town. Which is a lovely peaceful town on the Hungarian border that was very welcoming when I visited. She should have stayed there.

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"Gangland crime: The forgotten murder of Marioara Rostas
The abduction and killing of a Romanian teen in Dublin was never seen as a ‘big’ story'

https://www.irishtimes.com/life-and-style/people/gangland-crime-the-forgotten-murder-of-marioara-rostas-1.4526377

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Marioara Rostas was an 18-year-old Romanian immigrant and a member of the Roma community. She didn’t meet the ‘big murder’ criteria. Social media didn’t light up. There were no protests about reclaiming the streets for women

Gangland crime: The forgotten murder of Marioara Rostas

The abduction and killing of a Romanian teen in Dublin was never seen as a ‘big’ story

https://www.irishtimes.com/life-and-style/people/gangland-crime-the-forgotten-murder-of-marioara-rostas-1.4526377

Tiredandteasytoday · 28/11/2024 06:00

https://motorcyclesports.net/conor-mcgregors-reputation-further-tarnished-by-ties-to-irish-underworld-figures-and-cartel-that-led-to-18-murders/

Nikita was very brave bearing in mind whom he associates with.

Conor McGregor's Reputation Further Tarnished by Ties to Irish Underworld Figures and 'CARTEL' that led to 18 murders

Conor McGregor, once the untouchable face of mixed martial arts, finds himself at the center of yet another scandal.

https://motorcyclesports.net/conor-mcgregors-reputation-further-tarnished-by-ties-to-irish-underworld-figures-and-cartel-that-led-to-18-murders

kkloo · 28/11/2024 06:09

CandidaAlbicans2 · 27/11/2024 09:40

But we simply do not know if Dee is in an abusive relationship. He's a scumbag but for all I know it could be a case of Madonna/whore, where Dee, as the mother of his children, is the Madonna here and any other woman who gives him sexual attention is a whore. Maybe he compartmentalises this and treats her well, and maybe her internalise misogyny means she thinks he can't help himself (so it's the other women's fault he had sex with them). She lives in her "happy family" bubble and sticks her fingers in her ears to his shitty ways outside. We can't assume she wants to leave but is too scared to.

I would bet my house on that not being the case. No way he treats her with respect

DublinFemale · 28/11/2024 08:03

I feel she is too far in and loves the lifestyle, same as all the wife's & girlfriends of the people he associates with.

Dee funded him while he was training, he collected SW and she was working and paying for everything.

This lifestyle was what she funded at the start.

DublinFemale · 28/11/2024 08:06

I've said it before and I stand by it, if MMA had not have worked out he was well on the road to become a Kinahan enforcer.

Still would have had money and she still would stay with him.

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 28/11/2024 08:45

Who knows what goes on in someone else’s head.

I often wonder that of men who rape

EdgeofSeventy · 28/11/2024 12:29

Does anyone know for sure that she wrote that? Or wasn't coerced?
Maybe she did write it, and maybe she believes those things.
Problem is, none of us know.
We know she is still in this relationship.
Most of us are thinking, fuck that.
We know he's a violent sex offender.
Without more provable information I can only feel very sorry for the children.

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