Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim

[Cartwrightandson]

Conor has posted a few times, then deleted, check tatt.le.life thread for the screenshots...but this from Dee is crazy...he went out cheating on you at 8 months pregnant, he's had at least 5 sexual assault claims, he is linked to Irish gangster, he publicly cheated on you several times and poor Nikita was badly bruised and had to have a tampon removed via forceps....will Dee be warning her daughter of men like her father?

Abuse of his partner that is so awful that it can't be hidden.

Even if she set out to party and have sex with him, at some point that turned into rape.

Did you read the evidence that Nikita was battered black and blue and the treating paramedic had never seen bruising so bad? Or that her tampon had to be removed by forceps? Or that a psychiatrist diagnosed her with severe PTSD?

I don’t think there’s any evidence that she was after money but certainly she was a terrible mother who set out to shag CM and probably his mate too. His reputation was well known but she probably turned a blind eye to it as she wouldn’t be fearing rape as she went back willingly for sex and drugs. What he then did was evil and he should be in jail. He has no respect for women including Dee, but he’s surrounded my women with no respect for themselves too.

There was a thread the other day about the case and it seemed that the rhetoric on Dee is “Poor woman is probably terrified abused and can’t leave and can’t be expected to rote to her children from a violent man”. A few of us pushed back to say “What if she’s not a victim but an enabler” and got absolute tore a new one, told we were victim blaming.

But I KNEW my instinct was right. People need to accept that women can be just fucking awful abuse enablers. And she is - you don’t have to be the one carrying out abuse to have a responsibility for stopping it.

I feel awful for those kids and can only hope social services are involved

I've just read this open mouthed! Had no idea he had a partner let alone 4 CHILDREN! Sick sick sick. She's a stupid stupid person.

Please don’t say she has no money. She will not have £0 in her bank account. She is far more privileged than the vast majority of women. She CAN leave. She doesn’t want to. She likes her cushy number and being blind to her idiot OH.

@Holymoleyitscold if you read about the case you would also know that she was pretty much covered head to toe in bruising (all four limbs, her neck, her hands etc). She had to have her tampon removed with forceps because it was lodged at the top of her vagina. Staff said they either hadn't seen anything so severe before, or hadn't for a long time. She had her house broken into, her partner stabbed etc.

I find it pretty repugnant that you say you don't have any sympathy for this woman.

Maybe she did want to party with him, it's not unusual for young women to seek attention from rich, influential, celebrities. That does not mean that those men are within their rights to beat and rape those women after supplying them with drugs and alcohol.

This woman has never tried to present herself as perfect, that was made quite clear in the trial. It doesn't mean she had it coming to her though and that sentiment is foul.

Well I felt sorry for her but it's difficult to now given she is so ignorant and stupid. I have no doubt she is coerced into making such a public declaration but she has no respect for herself or her children with that outburst.

He's a rotten scumbag, hopefully he crosses his scummy gangland friends and he disappears.

I don't think his partner can leave, I'd doubt he would allow it and his Kinihan mates would certainly deal with her. His sister is with one of their enforcers.

Nikita was offered more money to settle than she's got here, so the idea that she did this for financial reasons is idiotic.

I did. He is an absolute disgusting evil animal(too good of a word for him. I’m saying sorry to my dog) that was prob out of his head on drugs.

I also read about her going willingly to a hotel room with them, she took smashed out of her head on drugs with him and had consensual sex with his friend in view of him . I imagine that she wasn’t of soundest mental state even before McGregor.

Both she and McGregor are vile.

Both Nikita

Can you confirm your evidence of this or is it just hearsay?

Not saying that I don’t believe you but I don’t remember reading about this.

I honestly think it's him on her account , people are so quick to believe she supports him but I think she is probably his biggest victim imagine living with him coked off his head and drunk all the time

I just feel pity and sadness for her.
She may feel she has no other option than to double down. She must have had an inkling at least what he was like so I doubt she is facing any surprises and they will both be surrounded by people who are echoing the view she has chosen to take on it.

Yeah I think this too.

I would agree. There are areas like where McGregor comes from that put up and shut up. There would be generational misogyny. I'd doubt his partner has anyone saying leave him.

Add in the money he has and the power, no one, his own mother won't go against him.

He does allegedly have links to an Irish gang who are known to be very dangerous and I doubt its conicidence that his accuser had her house broken into and her Partner attacked

This is still just your opinion, you don't know you are right.

I'm inclined to think that she is afraid to leave, she would never be safe if she did. I might be wrong about this but unless you know her personally, you only have the same information that the rest of us have.

We don’t know if she’s being abused, or why she chose to stay. What I have a problem with is her attacking her husband’s victim, and attempting to damage her character. It is petty and hypocritical considering her husbands behavior. She could have released a statement explaining she was standing by him without dragging the victim. She could have also said nothing at all - if no split was forthcoming we’d still have got the message that she was sticking with her violent, convicted rapist partner.

Yes you’re right and similarly you still don’t know if she is abused scared and penniless. She may be fine with his behaviour, she may never want to leave. We don’t know but taking an educated guess based on what she’s posted, the fact she stands by him I think she is happy to stay

I find it pretty repugnant that you say you don't have any sympathy for this woman.

unfortunately I’ve been around long enough to meet some pretty repugnant men and women who don’t deserve sympathy.

There was zero evidence that she had sex with James Lawrence, and certainly nothing about ‘in full view’ of anybody.
Nikita is adamant she did not have sex with Lawrence and none of his DNA was found.
He’s a patsy.

So you think even if consenting to sex then, that it is OK for a world champion MMA fighter to beat a woman black and blue during the act? Nice.