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Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim

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Cartwrightandson · 27/11/2024 06:36

Conor has posted a few times, then deleted, check tatt.le.life thread for the screenshots...but this from Dee is crazy...he went out cheating on you at 8 months pregnant, he's had at least 5 sexual assault claims, he is linked to Irish gangster, he publicly cheated on you several times and poor Nikita was badly bruised and had to have a tampon removed via forceps....will Dee be warning her daughter of men like her father?

Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim
Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim
Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim
Dee Devlin (Conor McGregor's partner) victim blaming a rape victim
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whathaveiforgotten · 27/11/2024 12:51

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AnareticDegree · 27/11/2024 13:18

BarbaraHoward · 27/11/2024 07:17

I don't think it's fair to put so much attention on his partner. We have no idea what goes on behind closed doors, and he would be a terrifying man to anger.

What we do know is that Conor McGregor is a rapist scumbag, and Nikita is incredibly brave. Let's just focus on those two rather than placing blame at a woman's door.

He doesn't even need a reason, to violently assault people.

Just an out of control thug who needs locking up and leaving there.

www.independent.co.uk/sport/ufc/conor-mcgregor-punch-fight-italy-b1939924.html

QuintessentialDragon · 27/11/2024 13:21

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Hoppinggreen · 27/11/2024 13:22

If his performance in Road House wasn't enough to end his career hopefully this will be

BarbaraHoward · 27/11/2024 13:25

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Fucking hell what a load of victim blaming bullshit.

whathaveiforgotten · 27/11/2024 13:27

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What a fucking disgusting post.

Should be ashamed of yourself.

SleepPrettyDarling · 27/11/2024 13:33

vibratosprigato · 27/11/2024 11:18

@Holymoleyitscold yes I read that the friend claimed to have consensual sex with her. Contrary to your response to another poster, this alleged intercourse was not in front of anyone else. There were no witnesses to that. I also read that she has no recollection of it and there was no DNA evidence to support it. It's a pretty common theory that Connor and his friend claimed this to discredit her. Connor conveniently paid his legal bills.

Regardless of your views of this woman's intentions or capabilities as a mother, she was assaulted. This has been proven in a court of law. I sincerely hope that you aren't exposing any of these beliefs to your children if you have them.

The legal costs hearing is on Thursday. I’d be worried JL’s costs would be awarded against Nikita, as he was not found to have assaulted her. This is a huge risk for her. But what choice fit she have? He claims to have had sex with her, and told the Gardai this, so what choice did she have but to make a claim against him too? It was a trap, and it half-worked, poor Nikita. She only took the civil case against him on the basis of his claim.

LarkspurLane · 27/11/2024 13:36

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Why should she have to change her behaviour to avoid being raped?

Why don't you spend your time blaming the person who is at fault here - the actual rapist!

NonPlayerCharacter · 27/11/2024 13:37

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According to here, a woman is always beyond reproach, a perpetual victim, without any agency and never capable of doing anything wrong. Any and every woman.

You haven't spent thirty seconds reading here if you think women are never criticised. This paragraph alone is a lie borne of an agenda I can guess at, and the rest of the post is a pile of absolutely disgusting, woman-hating, rape apologist drivel that doesn't surprise me in the least since you outed yourself in the first four lines.

You really think you're the first one we've ever seen, don't you?

SleepPrettyDarling · 27/11/2024 13:37

I am also wondering if perjury applies in civil cases, and if a criminal charge can be made for that. There was none of JL’s DNA found in Nikita’s rape exam.

Theoriginalmrscillianmurphy · 27/11/2024 13:38

@Beezknees I find your comment disgraceful to be honest

SerafinasGoose · 27/11/2024 13:40

Namechangeobviously2024 · 27/11/2024 06:43

Is it helpful to keep sharing this stuff?

Yes. It's very necessary to draw repeated attention to the way in which male behaviour is routinely blamed upon women.

SerafinasGoose · 27/11/2024 13:42

whathaveiforgotten · 27/11/2024 13:27

What a fucking disgusting post.

Should be ashamed of yourself.

But won't be.

This site is saturated with incels and their pathetic enablers. It's been this way now for quite a while.

NonPlayerCharacter · 27/11/2024 13:48

SerafinasGoose · 27/11/2024 13:42

But won't be.

This site is saturated with incels and their pathetic enablers. It's been this way now for quite a while.

They're absolutely terrified and infuriated by a predominantly female site. It is truly pathetic.

He thinks he's a brave truth teller who will blow our minds because we've never heard this before.

VictoriaSpungecake · 27/11/2024 14:10

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Okay...what you are saying is that no woman, child, or man should go anywhere near this man because he is so out of control that if you go anywhere near him it is a given that you are going to be battered and/or raped? So, that means that we need to do something about this "wild animal" doesn't it?

Havalona · 27/11/2024 14:12

Did anyone else get a feeling that while the jury found in NH's favour, the derisory settlement awarded (in view of MG's immense wealth) may have been a signal that there was some "contributory negligence"?

Reminded me of insurance claims for car accidents where the settlement is reduced because the claimant wasn't wearing a seat belt or something.

I am not saying that is what happened, just that I got a feeling that the jury may have thought this.

I actually expected her to get a least a million (which would have been subject to appeal I'd say), and NH did claim more than that I think.

BarbaraHoward · 27/11/2024 14:15

Havalona · 27/11/2024 14:12

Did anyone else get a feeling that while the jury found in NH's favour, the derisory settlement awarded (in view of MG's immense wealth) may have been a signal that there was some "contributory negligence"?

Reminded me of insurance claims for car accidents where the settlement is reduced because the claimant wasn't wearing a seat belt or something.

I am not saying that is what happened, just that I got a feeling that the jury may have thought this.

I actually expected her to get a least a million (which would have been subject to appeal I'd say), and NH did claim more than that I think.

I think that the jury found he raped her and not much else matters.

Honeycrisp · 27/11/2024 14:22

Havalona · 27/11/2024 14:12

Did anyone else get a feeling that while the jury found in NH's favour, the derisory settlement awarded (in view of MG's immense wealth) may have been a signal that there was some "contributory negligence"?

Reminded me of insurance claims for car accidents where the settlement is reduced because the claimant wasn't wearing a seat belt or something.

I am not saying that is what happened, just that I got a feeling that the jury may have thought this.

I actually expected her to get a least a million (which would have been subject to appeal I'd say), and NH did claim more than that I think.

I read that the damage caps in Ireland are quite low. Not sure if that's accurate, but there will be a framework for awards quantum.

Rowen32 · 27/11/2024 14:24

Havalona · 27/11/2024 14:12

Did anyone else get a feeling that while the jury found in NH's favour, the derisory settlement awarded (in view of MG's immense wealth) may have been a signal that there was some "contributory negligence"?

Reminded me of insurance claims for car accidents where the settlement is reduced because the claimant wasn't wearing a seat belt or something.

I am not saying that is what happened, just that I got a feeling that the jury may have thought this.

I actually expected her to get a least a million (which would have been subject to appeal I'd say), and NH did claim more than that I think.

The judge spoke to them about that. Said its €500000 for someone who becomes paraplegic and a few other examples as a basis for where to start so it was going to have to be lower than that

Havalona · 27/11/2024 14:32

OK, I see that the jury was guided by the judge re the settlement.

Meltedchocolateteapot · 27/11/2024 14:58

Beezknees · 27/11/2024 08:17

It's never impossible. She's choosing to stay. I was in an abusive relationship so I'm not speaking from no experience and I didn't have half the money she's got.

His associates are literally murderers, look up the Kinahan gang. Leaving a domestic violence situation is always dangerous for the Woman, but knowing who his cronies are and what they are capable of I’m sure she’d be worried for her life if she left him. Nikita’s partner was stabbed, another of his accusers had bricks thrown through her window and her car burned out. He’s capable of anything.

Nanny0gg · 27/11/2024 15:12

Tiredandteasytoday · 27/11/2024 07:02

She sounds deluded

Might have been forced to do it

ClareBlue · 28/11/2024 02:11

CKN · 27/11/2024 10:58

Can you confirm your evidence of this or is it just hearsay?

Not saying that I don’t believe you but I don’t remember reading about this.

Google Romanian girl abducted and murdered in Dublin. She was an 18 year old Roma begging on OConnel bridge. The trial was a few years ago and the main guy got off. She rang Romania while held captive so we know what actually happened when she was held captive, not what we normally think, happens, because she told her dad, but didn't know where she was being held. You'll need a strong stomach to read the sanitised reporting. These are the guys CM was brought up with and drinks with on a night out. Fortunately they found her mutilated body and she was buried in Timisora her home town. Which is a lovely peaceful town on the Hungarian border that was very welcoming when I visited. She should have stayed there.

Thiszebraiscrossing · 28/11/2024 02:36

If Nikita ends up having to pay the costs and I hope not then surely a crowdfund is the answer

Thiszebraiscrossing · 28/11/2024 02:39

I don’t want to comment on Dee as surely if she is trying to keep him sweet whilst working out an escape plan then loads of threads re this are not in her best interests

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