Update - where’s the new Guardian Soulmates?

[Snowfish79]

Having stumbled upon the above topic via dear Google…. I wonder if any wise and informed persons have an answer?

I may be shot for being a boy, in a girls’ place…. Please make it quick 🙏🏻

No. That’s not what I said

Both sexes is fine by me. I was trying to be sensitive and to be honest am not sure what the ‘right’ words are. Possibly for any topic! Thanks

Sex is much better than gender.

And if you’re staying, I recommend looking round, reading some threads & getting a feel for the place.

To answer your question...probably Bumble or Hinge.

Can you remind me the difference? Not a trick question!

I’m not sure how long I’ll stick around….

Thanks for that, I have dabbled in both and found it’s like panning for gold 😂

Mask?

This sounds like the sort of ‘joke’ I’d be crucified for

Whoooo?

Ummmm… what? 🤔

One of my best mates is on bumble. I'm not going to say the area but she's lovely ...keep looking!

I also have a friend who met his wife on hinge and they married this year (they are 40).

Thanks for that! Rather put off women for now following the responses to my post!

I’ll keep an eye open for your lovely mate 🙂😇

Nobody would have known you weren't "a female" unless you told us.

Ummm…. Others have disagreed with this 🤷🏻‍♂️

Either way, the responses are fucked up!

To all those that have chosen to make critical and unkind or unpleasant comments in response to my post; I have been in touch with the poster of the original question - I contacted her before making the post - and she wrote this:

“I've just read your thread. What a vitriolic rabbit hole. Sorry you had that experience. Appalling behaviour. I'm temporarily embarrassed to be a woman.”

Food for thought!

As for me, 24hrs is enough life wasted

Excellent news. If you see this before you scuttle off back to wherever you came from though, you might find this thread informative.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5216501-females?page=1

I bet she was thrilled that you contacted her and isn't it lovely how she agreed with you and completely validated you.
Do you feel better now a woman has made it all ok?

😂

You could have listened and learned something from women. But nahhh. Why bother, eh? When you're so on point with the "sorry i upset xyz but wasn't my intention" line, that saves you the bother of ever having to change

Food for thought?

For whom?

Oh God, Guardian Soulmates where 60 year old + men approach 30 year old women and try to use the arts as lubrication.

Stop arguing on here and go and browse https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights. Do not post. Do not ask any questions. Just browse and learn.

I have learnt - that I should have given more thought to my choice of words in this context. And I have apologised multiple times for that.

What else am I meant to be learning?

Umm…. I asked a genuine question.

The link says ‘not found’ 🤷🏻‍♂️

Why are you still here?

Genuine question.