I have been seeing someone for a month he keeps telling me that he loves me & I don’t know how to tell him to take it a bit slower?

[SharpSnake]

• I have been dating someone for around a month now. We have met on two occasions. The first first was just a brief date over a drink or two.

• We ended up meeting each other over the weekend, he invited me over to his place. I came on the Friday left on the Sunday.

• We literally spent the time talking and getting to know each other more, the conversation was flowing non stop no awkward breaks or anything like that inbetween.

• I think we have both had around 4 hours sleep over the past 2 days . We spent the time together just talking and have sex, when we was just lead in bed cuddling he telling me he loves me he mentioned this several times but I just let it blow over. He was also saying I’m full of him and he wants me to have his baby’s.

• Every time he finished he told me that he is going to get me pregnant. I am no where ready for a child but he has said that multiple times to me now that he wants a baby and our own family together. What can I say to him please? I do really like him but I don’t want to rush into things, I have briefly mentioned this to him but I don’t think he acknowledges this.

( I am on contraception)

Throw him back

I have second hand ick for you

Run. This is not healthy behaviour

DUMP HIM.

He's a maniac.

2 dates?

OP you’ve wasted more time on this thread and navel gazing about him than you’ve actually spent time with him i imagine

How appalling must your benchmark for men be Op that you’re even thinking about this man

This is insane 😬 Run! After 2 meets you're not even at exclusivity level yet, let alone love and babies?

It’s more concerning that your immediate instinct wasn’t to get out of bed with this loon, go home and block him. He’s a total stranger you’ve met twice!

• He was also saying I’m full of him and he wants me to have his baby’s.

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Spam imho

We can all get a bit carried away if the sex is good - hormones will do that!! But seriously, repeatedly telling you he loves you, wants to get you pregnant - that is not normal behaviour - in your position, I would be running a mile (and probably taking emergency contraceptives just for good measure)!

Run a fucking mile.

It's one thing to get caught up in a new relationship/sex and end up saying you love someone. Particularly if the person isn't socially clued up and is a bit inexperienced/young.

Quite another to repeatedly say that you are going to get someone pregnant - fucking shocking actually. Controlling, weird, possessive and just generally unacceptable.

I'd end the relationship. He's love bombing you. I actually feel nauseous hearing his comments 2nd hand.

I have to ask - doesn’t this give you the biggest ICK? There’s something off about the way that he views you as a receptacle for his sperm and incubator for his potential babies that just makes me want to have a hot shower and scrub myself clean. Somehow, he’s seeing you as an object rather than you.

He is going to suffocate you, run!!!

RUN FOR THE HILLS!

That is was we call love bombing combined with a breeding kink, unless you're enjoying what he's saying and the whole thing then I would ditch and run. If this is how he's acting after meeting you twice then I'd be worried.

Why did you continue to have sex with him after the first time he said it?!

i would wager the OP is a very vulnerable person in RL

I have voted YABU but only because you're giving this man any consideration.

2 dates and a weekend and he wants you to have his babies? How are you not sufficiently alarmed by this to back up fast?

He doesn't love you btw. He may love the fantasy he is currently concocting in his mad head atm.
Sounds like a love-bomber extraordinaire.

You can’t be seriously needing to ask.

This would trigger huge alarm bells for me.

As for being "full of him".

Wtf is he on??

Run!

This would really concern me. It's like he's desperate to make you think he's a certain way when in reality he's probably the opposite. He could go controlling in the near future. This type of behaviour normally works on someone who's either young without much expert of dating or someone vulnerable. It's so unhealthy.

I had a relationship that started like this once, my first serious. I was very young and didn’t recognise the signs although I did feel uncomfortable, like you. He turned out to be very controlling and abusive. He’s in the love bombing stage. End it now.

Just run.