Boyfriends kink

[Kneebonefuture]

So kind of a rude one, so I won't go into specifics. And he's not my boyfriend, he's an old fling who has been a friend for 15 years, and we were kind of thinking of getting together, but no idea how to word that.

I've always known he had a slightly kinky side, nothing mad just a little bit more adventurous than me. However he has recently revealed a kink/hobby? That i never knew about, he seemed totally ashamed and called himself a loser, a weirdo and dirty. Its really not my thing, but I don't like to judge, so just said it wasn't anything to be ashamed of and laughed it off. Hes since seemed to take that as a green light that I'm also into it. Constantly referring to it, bringing it up and fitting it into conversations that hold no relevance. And even sending photos. Should I just call things off with him, as it doesn't appear we are a match or just tell him I'm not into it, how would I even word that? Please no nasty comments, I'm a really shy and introverted person and get confused with boundary setting occasionally. Thanks 😊

Which is worse?
You die of embarrassment, we die of curiosity?

Gifs are wild

Got to be wearing women's stockings!

I'm not going to lie, its not that but he is into that aswel

Great actor - disgusting man

You don’t need to die of embarrassment, this is an annonymous forum, just say it!

Omggg 🤭🤭, free yourself from him girl

Is he a furry?

Agp

Come on OP!

FFS, we don't need to know what it is.

Just make it clear that you're not interested, @Kneebonefuture and that he has mistaken your not being bothered that he has the kink with being actively enthusiastic about it so can he please stop for the sake of your friendship.

This

French maid, complete with stockings and a wig?

I went through a similar thing with a male friend. I told him to stop. It's not my scene and is spoiling the friendship. I haven't heard from him since which is great as I wasn't looking forward to telling him to fuck off.

Dresses up as Mr tumble and wants a spanking!!!

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Thank you everyone you've all been so kind. I was really expecting the worst in responses. I'm just going to have to be brave and tell him to knock it off.

Good on you, him constantly going on about it ia not a good sign at all, I don’t think he’s the one for you. I liked the response idea someone suggested unthread where they just said along the lines of “oh stop banging on about this, I’m not into it”. Good luck!

Does he like to dress up as Sir Peregrine Worsthorne whilst you smack his bottom with a rolled-up copy of the Financial Times?

If so, no need to worry; that's an extremely common kink.

Just say ‘Look Nigel, the mere idea of you wearing M and S women’s scanties makes my vagina clamp shut. Go and bother someone else.’

I'm not really sure how you can go back to being friends after he's sent you whatever it is several times...but you're definitely not compatible as lovers.

"I said it was nothing to be ashamed about, that doesn’t mean I want to join in with it. If I was into it too then I would have said that instead."

Whatever this thing is, the other sissy thing is enough for me to say run. He'll never be as interested in you as he is in himself.

I have a sinking feeling it might involve wearing nappies (please tell me it isn’t, OP!)

What a let down but we can only imagine it was something incredibly extreme.

Throwing slurs around is much more disgusting than any kink I can think of. Grow up :)

I had the same sinking feeling

Yes we do need to know what it is. The gifs in this thread have had me howling.

It clearly involves some sort of dressing up, which precludes body fluid related kinks. S&M or bondage are too mainstream, nothing worth starting a thread over. Is it some type of mask fetish? There are loads of subcultures on social media where women simp over men wearing the Scream movie mask or cosplaying Ghost from COD. Otherwise I'm also betting on furry! Or some sort of age regression play? Like dressing up as an adult baby?