Boyfriends kink

[Kneebonefuture]

So kind of a rude one, so I won't go into specifics. And he's not my boyfriend, he's an old fling who has been a friend for 15 years, and we were kind of thinking of getting together, but no idea how to word that.

I've always known he had a slightly kinky side, nothing mad just a little bit more adventurous than me. However he has recently revealed a kink/hobby? That i never knew about, he seemed totally ashamed and called himself a loser, a weirdo and dirty. Its really not my thing, but I don't like to judge, so just said it wasn't anything to be ashamed of and laughed it off. Hes since seemed to take that as a green light that I'm also into it. Constantly referring to it, bringing it up and fitting it into conversations that hold no relevance. And even sending photos. Should I just call things off with him, as it doesn't appear we are a match or just tell him I'm not into it, how would I even word that? Please no nasty comments, I'm a really shy and introverted person and get confused with boundary setting occasionally. Thanks 😊

Yeah, what do you say to them? 😄

OP, put us out of our misery - is it adult baby??! Blink once for yes, twice for no 👶🏻 😉

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I really think you should find a man like Courgettesandonions describes and get the fuck away from this one. Non judgement has gone way too far.

Well this pic, was a close up and you couldn't even see him in it. So I just said well I can't really see you in it.

Hes the kind of person who doesn't send a long message he'll send several messages in a row. So its been quite easy to ignore questions and comments and just reply to other things he's said.

Oh I should correct the post, I meant great actor, disgusting character

He was a guy in sex and the city that miranda dated - could only get it up in places they might get caught

How about a diagram?

" see him in it " so it's something he wears. He also likes wearing stockings at times so .....? I really can't thing of anything that is any worse than what has already been mentioned.

No see him in it was in reference to the photo

Same! Best possible partner ⭐️🫶🏽😍

Ah got you

Hmm you can't really see him - so is the photo taken from long distance? Does he roam in fields and pretend to be a cow

Does he give himself enemas and film it?

FFS Op its saturday night, the HRT is kicked in and everyone is high off strictly.

@MumOfOneAllAlone 😂😂

Does he like to dress as Margaret Thatcher or the Queen?

The true kink is talking about it when you are obviously not interested and uncomfortable. On that basis, I'd say "get rid" and no need to explain. Just ghost, block and avoid.

Other than a clown, a baby, a woman, a gimp what else do men dress up as?

You may mock, but it's surprisingly easy to be walking downstairs naked, slip on the loose carpet just after your hamster has got loose from its cage and made a run for it and then, next thing you know, poor little Harold has plunged face-first into the mystic.

<really desperately trying not to think of George Galloway>

Omg! Iconic!

Stone me , showing our age here.

Would you like me........... to be the cat?

Here puss puss. I once met Rula Lenska. She was tall as fook

I'm starting to think OP's kink is making people on MN suffer.

Hit the nail on the head hear ^
If it's not you , you just need to be honest about it. It's not your fault that the miscommunication happened as you were trying to be kind but better to 'come clean' so to speak sooner rather than later or you'll just continue in these unwanted conversations and picture exchanges.
I've got to be honest if his kink isn't your thing, it's probably not going to be a good match sexually anyway xx

OP mentions a close up. And role play.

I thought id seen it all but I cant guess this one if its not something already mentioned.

I wonder if it might be a close-up of a body part that, erm, isn't nearly as clean as it could be?

Not sure I actually want to know now, not gonna lie.