To think this a red flag? And either way be completely cringed out?

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Went on a third date with a man, and for relevance we have not had sex yet.

The conversation kind of shifted to exs (it was relevant) and he said he broke up with his ex as it became apparent she only wanted two things:

To live with him rent free
To have an incredible dicking every day (which he followed up with yeah I know that sounds big headed)

I just kind of said “oh right” and changed the subject. Maybe he is fantastic in bed, maybe not, but it definitely gave me the absolute ick.

I was thinking exactly this. Maybe he didn't say it in a nice way but don't think he said nothing wrong

I've been in enough boats to know that very few men give an incredible docking so I would be suspicious if he claimed to manage one every day

Oooof 😬

With you on the ick. Why couldn’t he just say that his ex wanted incredible sex? Presumably he didn’t want to give that to her if they finished!

I'd ask for her point of view.

Incredible dicking would’ve had me squeezing though the toilet window. Grim🤮

Yeah I’m not seeing the issue with this either. She had a healthy sex drive … so what really.

Are you sure you didn’t mishear? He may have given both her and you an incredible icking

Isn’t it a village in the Cotswolds? Between Great Snoring and Lower Wittering?

X1000

He's letting you know his boundaries. Which would ordinarily be a negotiation but in this case he is setting out control.

1 I'm not paying
2 I won't take responsibility for this relationship, which is confirmation of 1.

He is not a serious person and you are wasting your time with him.

Walk away. Do it so quickly and don't worry that some might call it running: It might just save your life.

I think you matched each other perfectly on the grammar department. Would you like his number and an incredible dicking?

This is all very dramatic …

Great Snoring is in Norfolk, near Little Snoring.

🙈 is the OP really that difficult to understand?

It’s irrelevant how much they did or didn’t have sex, two consenting adults where it’s frankly not my business and whether she paid rent or not - again I don’t care, that’s their arrangement. Nothing to do with me.

It’s the ego on him that thinks he’s Casanova giving incredible dickings to the women of London. I don’t think I could not laugh at myself and die of embarrassment saying to a date my boyfriend stayed with me because of my incredible pussying.

Or just keep the alleged sex scenario to himself.
What an idiot.

Maybe it is dramatic. But he hasn't shown you that he has experience in caring for anyone other than himself. He's entering this relationship telling you that you only want him to take advantage of his finances and/or his sexual process.

You might think that that's not what you're doing. And it isn't, but you've engage with the conversation on his terms, not yours. You'll spend energy on proving him wrong rather than insisting on the respect you deserve in a relationship.

Stop the world i want to get off.

Stop the world i want to get off. If something happened to my partner i would rather enter a convent.

Errr... You what!? 😂😂😂

Sorry I wasn’t clear - the way he put it was indeed very cringe!

what I meant is, why was he so upset that she wanted sex?

I suppose a pertinent question (if you can look past the cringe) is what was he looking for that he was missing? Affection? Love? Good luck OP 😅

Men who big up their skills in bed are ALWAYS the biggest let-down.

😂😂

😁This!!

Just broke up with someone who likely says that about me as he’d use that disgusting phrase! When in actual fact his “incredible” (average) dick, was being sent to almost every woman on social media with a pulse 🤣! Mostly young women and on Snapchat, (he’s 40) but I’d be dubious of anyone even using that terminology. (I paid my own rent, had my own place and am not insinuating it’s him!)