To think this a red flag? And either way be completely cringed out?

[tgatwas]

Went on a third date with a man, and for relevance we have not had sex yet.

The conversation kind of shifted to exs (it was relevant) and he said he broke up with his ex as it became apparent she only wanted two things:

To live with him rent free
To have an incredible dicking every day (which he followed up with yeah I know that sounds big headed)

I just kind of said “oh right” and changed the subject. Maybe he is fantastic in bed, maybe not, but it definitely gave me the absolute ick.

Yep, loves himself. Would totally be cringed out and put off.

I've never met a man who complained about having too much sex... 🤔🙄

Definitely something ick about that one!

If I was living rent free AND getting a mind blowing shag every day I don't think I'd be leaving. Someone's telling porkies or he is overestimating his incredible dicking prowess

So is a woman having sex 'giving a man an incredible cunting'?

He sounds rank 😂

I don't know why you're even asking? Set your standards higher

Did he actually say dicking?

That's worse than knobbing

Gosh, someone is VERY full of himself isn't he.
The trouble with men like this is you can't help wondering right from the start what on earth he'll concoct about you should you have the temerity to leave.

Eurgh.

Never mind his ex, but the phrase "incredible dicking" will certainly be living rent free (in my head)

So the ick wasn't just the phrase itself?

Tell him you're not so keen on an incredible dicking right out of the gate, at least not until you've had a rigorous finger-blasting.

The fact that he has used the term “incredible dicking” would really give me the ick

Incredible dicking 😂

😂

Can't imagine why the relationship ended.

This really isn't the flex he thinks it is, if living rent free and having amazing sex every day isn't enough to keep her. 😆

Hes got a chipolata

Hahahahaha.

Urgh, don't. He seems the type to start waggling them around and winking.

He may have just been trying to make light of what was actually a tough issue in their relationship.

The good thing is that you've only wasted three dates on him.

It sounds to me as if he has relaxed, dropped the airs and graces normally applied during the first date, and shown you his 'real' self. Throw him 🔙 into the sea.

Run for the hills run 🏃🏼

Any man who has to boast about how incredibly he is at sex is almost certainly really poor at it.

Also, the phrase "incredible dicking" suggests that he thinks his penis is the most important factor in sex - which also indicates someone who's bad in bed.

Regardless, it's a tasteless thing to say and I'd be making my excuses.

I'd give him a go and then give him a solid two for effort.

And if it is actually decent then... Win win!