To think this a red flag? And either way be completely cringed out?

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Went on a third date with a man, and for relevance we have not had sex yet.

The conversation kind of shifted to exs (it was relevant) and he said he broke up with his ex as it became apparent she only wanted two things:

To live with him rent free
To have an incredible dicking every day (which he followed up with yeah I know that sounds big headed)

I just kind of said “oh right” and changed the subject. Maybe he is fantastic in bed, maybe not, but it definitely gave me the absolute ick.

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@Rosebelles i think the cringey part is his choice of vocabulary, unless dicking is a commonly used verb nowadays on the dating/dicking scene, and the humble-brag.

@Rosebelles , you have missed the point. He described himself, to a romantic prospect, as somebody who provides an 'incredible dicking'. There is no way back from that.

He was fully entitled not to want to have a gf living with him rent free, the same as any woman. Same with sex.

It's his incredible dicking that is carrying this thread.

Ugh. Utterly disgusting.

Thanks for the clarification.

I think you’ve painfully missed the point.

The rent free thing is between them. I don’t know the ins and outs. Basically it’s irrelevant

Neither is him, her or both wanting sex every day.

My issue is his big headed-ness and wording. That he thinks he’s incredible in bed and she got such a good dicking that she stayed around just for that.

Went on a third date with a man, and for relevance we have not had sex yet

Have you told him there won’t be a fourth date? In my head I’m imagining a Daniel Cleaver type male 😂

I would have bitten the finger off. How utterly disgusting to just put a finger in your mouth when you yawn 🤢 I mean, what normal person does that, especially when you don't know each other very well. I don't understand the yawn "r##e" ? But I'm sure it just makes matters worse for the twat.

Why don't you casually drop into conversation that you broke up with your ex because you figured he was only after all the cleaning, laundry, meals, and sex you enthusiastically provided daily? Fourth date? 😉

Hahahha I would laugh my head off at that.

Run. Now. Don't look back.
I vomited reading that. Be interesting to see what his ex said about it.....

I haven’t painfully missed the point at all. I just think most of the reactions to what he said are completely over the top. To go on a third date with someone shows there must have been something there, imagine getting cancelled for saying the words ‘incredible dicking’ it’s hilarious.

Im not his ex but I too would like to live rent free and have good sex everyday. Unfortunately it has not been the case!

I wouldn’t feel too bad for the guy @Rosebelles, if you wouldn’t mind someone you’ve been out 3 times bad mouthing their ex, using the vomit inducing phrase ‘incredible dicking’ whilst stealth bragging that he’s amazing in bed, I’m sure there are other women out there who wouldn’t mind either. He’s not been ‘cancelled’, op is free to choose whether she dates someone or not.

Numerous people pointed how how badly you missed the point.

Your standards are vanishingly low.

You should have replied with 'well, I can see why it didn't work out then.' 🙃

👏🏼👏🏼 no dear, I understood it clearly. I just disagree and think you are being too sensitive.

No dear. You clearly were not able to grasp a simple concept - as pointed out by numerous people on this thread.

Well it's not is it?

We are all free to decide for ourselves what sort of person we want to be with. We can decide not to see someone again for any reason. What those reasons might be will vary from person to person. Everyone draws a line in the sand in a different place.

Personally speaking I'd be put off by his bullshit and bragging. If this is how he wants to promote himself he's not the one for me.
I'd rather be seduced by someone's integrity and intelligent conversation.
His line will work for women who believe anything/want cock/like a cheeky chappy.
I hate a cheeky chappy.

It’s not over the top to find a man calling sex ‘an incredible dicking’ absolutely David Brent level cringeworthy and to immediately lose any attraction that might have been building.

OP doesn't want to "cancel" him. 🙄 She just doesn't wish to continue the relationship. It sounds like you would find a man talking about giving someone an "incredible dicking" good relationship material though. So I suggest you get his number off op

Exactly what I was thinking. Funny in a TV show,in real life no. Run away fast . How could you ever look at him again .

That's what his ex said

ha! good one!😅