To think this a red flag? And either way be completely cringed out?

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Went on a third date with a man, and for relevance we have not had sex yet.

The conversation kind of shifted to exs (it was relevant) and he said he broke up with his ex as it became apparent she only wanted two things:

To live with him rent free
To have an incredible dicking every day (which he followed up with yeah I know that sounds big headed)

I just kind of said “oh right” and changed the subject. Maybe he is fantastic in bed, maybe not, but it definitely gave me the absolute ick.

OMG. I’m speechless.

"Incredible dicking"? Incredible icking!

This is truly awful but I am cackling. I just can't.

What does r**e signify?

I would genuinely be tempted to text him

"Hi there. I just thought it would be best to be honest with you after our date last night. Your comment about your ex only being with your for an 'incredible dicking' every night has given me the 'ick. I have learned that once I get the 'ick, there is no coming back from it, so we'll have to leave it there I'm afraid."

Seriously. I would tell him.

No no no Op. The ex wanted him to give her incredible decking, and sadly his diy skills were not up to the job. And if it wasn’t decking then you say goodbye and thank you and you are suddenly very very busy.

Glad someone asked that 🤷‍♀️

The 'incredible dicking' in question was probably him jabbing at her with his semi-flaccid penis for 8 minutes before wanking onto her thigh and then passing out. I think she deserved to live rent free.

@TwistedWonder @echt The word is rape. "Yawn rape" denotes someone putting their fingers into your mouth if you open your mouth without covering it when yawning.

Gross

Incredible dicking 😂😂😂 WTAF

He sounds like an incredible 'Dickhead' OP.

It’s the weird terminology he has used- it feels creepy and would put me off too.

Ah ok. Never heard that expression before - it would definitely make me 🤢

Yes, red flag. Make that your last date with him.

It probably isn't.

Funny thread 😂

Neither have I. I'd be outta there like lightening!

That really is the most immature, toe-curling thing I’ve heard in a while. No wonder you’ve got the ick! I’d be binning him.

😂

Exactly!

I’m back and all I care about is what DeirdreRachid said* *in order to get every single comment deleted 😳

'dicking' is such a preternaturally unsexy word

She said something about him being a wide boy, that he was probably a scaffolder or something, and that he obviously wasn't Jacob Rees-Mogg. Not sure why that comment got deleted. 😂

I find this interesting because if we turned the tables and a woman got rid of a guy because he wanted to live with her rent free and wanted a great shag (or whatever you want to call it) every day, we’d all be praising her.

So what if he doesn’t want someone to live with him rent free, who does? Lol and great if he’s good in bed and doesn’t personally want it every single day, isn’t that what all woman want, I mean who’s actually got time for that every day.