To think this a red flag? And either way be completely cringed out?

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Went on a third date with a man, and for relevance we have not had sex yet.

The conversation kind of shifted to exs (it was relevant) and he said he broke up with his ex as it became apparent she only wanted two things:

To live with him rent free
To have an incredible dicking every day (which he followed up with yeah I know that sounds big headed)

I just kind of said “oh right” and changed the subject. Maybe he is fantastic in bed, maybe not, but it definitely gave me the absolute ick.

Or someone with a bit of self respect wouldn't want to mention his or her previous sex life 3 dates in because there's so much more to get to know in a person than how incredible their dick is. But each to their own.

Urgh. That's awful!

Oh dear.

Sorry op I’ve quite a serious day but your post made me laugh!

Where have men found this 'good dicking' phrase and are there any women that don't immediately seal shut at the mention of it?

The thought of Jacob Rees Mogg and incredible dicking 🤢.

You just linked the words incredible dicking with the name Jacob Rees-Mogg and now I'm afraid my subconscious is going to take that and run with it when I dream tonight.

So yeah.
Thanks.
Dm me your address cos you're paying for the therapy.

Dicking?! could you not stop laughing in his face or did you just vomit?

Eugh. That’s ultra ick!

Oh good Grief! No thank you. At least you didn’t get to the point of him telling you to lay back and wait for your good dicking. Bye Bye Mr Ick.

No... Just no 🤦

I'd have laughed and said awwww, you know she only told you that to massage your ego so you'd let her live there rent free. And you believed her?!

Depending on how much of a turnoff that was / how much you are otherwise attracted to him I might be tempted to try him out for a night just out of curiosity :) But for a long-term relationship I'd definitely find it off putting that that was the way he talked about an ex even if it was 100% true.

I think my uncle used to a large tin of that for his pipe.

This this and this

Nice to know there's a use for his head ....

One a day? One? I hope you looked disappointed

To have an incredible dicking every day

I guess he couldn't manage it so she left because most men would be delighted to find a woman who wanted that.

'Roll up Roll up, see the Incredible Dicking Man'
half a bob job 😂😂

You now know all you need to about how sex with him would work out - bloody awful 😞

How repulsive

Maybe his dicking wasnt incredible like she wanted it? Maybe it was just flaccid dicking?

As much as that’s certainly an ick it would make me wonder about his dicking 🤣