@GiddyRobin
I've also never met anyone like this IRL. - who does performative eating and 'performative coldness'
If people are complaining about it on MN, I wonder if they're overweight women who, like you, think thin women opting for smaller cake sizes or not being able to finish a huge meal as a jibe.
Yeah this. ^ Sounds like a few overweight women on this thread are massively projecting, and assume every single person who doesn't eat/can't eat huge portions, are doing it 'to get at them' to show them up to make them feel bad about themselves.
Truth is, no-one cares if you eat a cake meant for 4, and others only eat a sixth of it, and it's YOUR problem if you feel bad about someone eating more than you. The 'teeny tiny' sniping and cattiness on here (from some) is utterly pathetic, and frankly, fucking nasty! Some posters clearly have issues around their weight and size, but they are their issues to sort. I am not going to eat more than I want to want - or CAN eat, because someone who has issues about their weight and size, feels bad when other people eat less than them.
And I am FAR from a teeny tiny - I am overweight, (around 2 stone overweight at the moment,) and have lost 2 and a half stone since early April. I am working very hard to lose weight and am very proud to have lost 2 and a half stone - without any diet injections either. Pure fucking hard work and exercise and self discipline.
And the one thing that gets right on my fucking tits is when some twat at work, or in my social circle dangles a mars bar or a cake in front of me and says. 'ooooh go on, have a big slice, you know you want to!!!' to try and tempt me, because they are jealous and bitter that I have lost weight, and am looking better than them.
See also, people waving booze in front of you when you have given up alcohol, or people blowing smoke in your face when you have given up smoking. Bitter, spiteful, nasty, disrespectful behaviour from jealous little individuals who don't have the willpower and strength to do anything themselves that will make their health better, so they pour scorn over those who do. And the 'teeny tiny' snipes and scorn on here from a few posters is fucking horrible.
How DARE you bash people who don't eat big portions? You don't know what they are going through or what they have been through. Some of them could have health issues, and some of them could have an eating disorder, (and could have struggled with their weight all their lives.) These same people who mock and deride people who eat smaller portions would run off and cry if someone fat-shamed them. But according to them, attacking people who eat less/slimmer people is OK!
Also, lay off attacking people who are on the slimmer side who are a bit cold. If someone wants to wrap up a bit coz they're cold, what the fuck has it got to do with you? Clearly projecting because YOU have issues!
As I said earlier, I find it very hard to believe someone who has lost a lot of weight would snipe at people who eat small portions, and get cold easily - apparently due to being very slim and not eating enough (according to the OP and a couple of others!)
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