Would you have sex-missionary with someone if offered money

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If so, how much would it have to be?

Discussion at work quite a few years ago, inspired by the Demi Moore film. I was younger and had more money than now. If someone asked you to sleep with them for x amount of money-say half a million, would you? Missionary only, over quickly
I was aghast and said no, most said of course they would.

Now, I think I feel differently

Would you?

God, definitely. Am I allowed to do Wordle.at the same time?

@SocksAndTheCity 😆

No.

No.

It's not just about the money.

I feel it would take away a bit of my soul. It would damage me.

I read a marilyn monroe book. She slept with a movie studio owner to get a part in a movie.

She said that she totally regretted it as

she "felt she had given away part of her soul that she couldn't get back"

Almost certainly. Sex can be incredibly meaningful and special — but it can also be transactional and unserious. I don’t have a difficulty separating the two. Whether I’d let my other half do the same thing I’m not so sure!

I'm skint so prob would.

@peachgreen Thats actually another, interesting side to the discussion! If our dps, Dh’s we’re offered the same scenario, would we give our blessing

Yes I would, absolutely. I’ve done far worse in my youth!
I’d probably do it for £50k I reckon, £500k and I’d do a whole football team.

Alas I’m fairly sure absolutely no-one would pay £5 these days.

😂 Such a specific amount

I am a late 40’s single parent perimenopausal woman with 3 kids and a dog, if someone wants to pay me 1m for a fumble, I would not say no.

@MadeleineMummy 😂

Yeah, I SO would for, say, 200k +.

I could sell this house and get a bungalow.
I'm getting on and looking to future-proof.

I'd rather not do missionary but otherwise yeah

I'm over 50 and don't currently have a partner ... a tenner would do, hell I'd probably pay him! 😆

What if part of the criteria was that they would tell everyone what you had done. Would you still do it?

Does nobody wonder about the psychological damage it would do to you?

No. I wouldn't respect myself if I did.

No.

I've had sex I've regretted and didn't get paid, I'd be fine getting paid.

That said I'd only want my partner to do it if they were less attractive than me. It's shallow but it's true.

Yes 100%

You can't know until you do it though.

The difference is that you would know that you had been a prostitute. And that might eat away at you.

You could be fine either. But I think it may cause damage

If I was single I would for a decent amount - £500k would do nicely. But I'm married, I couldn't be unfaithful and even if DH knew and was OK with it, then I'd think less of him for being OK with it - Not sure that makes any sense🤦‍♀️

Does it HAVE to be missionary?! Can't it be doggy?!

For 500k? Yes for sure.
I'm not sure what my limit would be..
I've got 100k left on the mortgage so maybe that as it would be life changing...
But to be really honest with you anything over 10k I'd have to seriously consider..
I think it might be the end of my marriage if I did that... so it's also would I end my marriage for that money?
Things aren't great at the moment and actually if it weren't for the mortgage I might have left by now anyway..
So definitely 100k

Yep.

How much?

Enough for a new boiler, bathroom and kitchen plus a bit in the bank so £100k would do it.