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Would you have sex-missionary with someone if offered money

687 replies

Snoringfamily · 12/09/2024 23:34

If so, how much would it have to be?

Discussion at work quite a few years ago, inspired by the Demi Moore film. I was younger and had more money than now. If someone asked you to sleep with them for x amount of money-say half a million, would you? Missionary only, over quickly
I was aghast and said no, most said of course they would.

Now, I think I feel differently

Would you?

OP posts:
AEP123 · 27/11/2024 11:17

Yep, sign me up!

momofonex · 27/11/2024 11:18

Absolutely

OldScribbler · 27/11/2024 14:09

LoveLifeBeHappy · 27/11/2024 10:15

Do this once a week, that's £4k a month for about half an hour's work. Easy money in my opinion.

It is not easy money; it is fantasy money. Nobody in the real world pays that much for sex, or anything like it

Flumoxed · 27/11/2024 14:12

I've had sex I regretted before. Why not regret it AND get half a million at the same time?

LoveLifeBeHappy · 27/11/2024 14:14

OldScribbler · 27/11/2024 14:09

It is not easy money; it is fantasy money. Nobody in the real world pays that much for sex, or anything like it

Oh, you'll be surprised.

OldScribbler · 27/11/2024 14:18

The more logical and relevant question is would you have an hour's sex for £200 since that is the market rate.

OldScribbler · 27/11/2024 14:29

LoveLifeBeHappy · 27/11/2024 14:14

Oh, you'll be surprised.

I will be not just surprised but astonished.

MarkingBad · 27/11/2024 15:23

OldScribbler · 27/11/2024 14:18

The more logical and relevant question is would you have an hour's sex for £200 since that is the market rate.

Edited

An hour's worth of sex?

In all my years I've never known a man to last an hour! Damn I'm probably too old for him to be interested in me.

LoveLifeBeHappy · 27/11/2024 15:44

OldScribbler · 27/11/2024 14:18

The more logical and relevant question is would you have an hour's sex for £200 since that is the market rate.

Edited

From what the mum has told me, she meets this one guy regularly. They spend an evening and night together. He leaves in the morning. I'm assuming they do it multiple times.

OldScribbler · 27/11/2024 17:04

LoveLifeBeHappy · 27/11/2024 15:44

From what the mum has told me, she meets this one guy regularly. They spend an evening and night together. He leaves in the morning. I'm assuming they do it multiple times.

Ah, that's very different.

Singleandproud · 27/11/2024 17:10

As long as there werent any (what I consider) weird kinks involved and he used protection absolutely. I wouldnt even need a million, I'd want more than £200 though. £5000 would probably be my minimum but it would have to be safe, no amount of money is worth your health

Possibly not if I was in committed relationship as I don't think it'd survive.

EmeraldDreams73 · 06/01/2025 20:26

I want to say hell no, no way. But actually I might! Only if dh agreed though - which he probably wouldn't.

LoveLifeBeHappy · 07/01/2025 09:53

EmeraldDreams73 · 06/01/2025 20:26

I want to say hell no, no way. But actually I might! Only if dh agreed though - which he probably wouldn't.

Many single women might find it worth considering—there's nothing to lose, and it could be an easy way to earn money. Some of the creators on OnlyFans are making millions. However, the real issue lies with the men, not the women.

Unrelated38 · 07/01/2025 10:14

Definitely. Probs 50k. Definitely 100k plus.
For us it would be a massively helpful sum of money.

JoyousTern · 07/01/2025 11:05

LoveLifeBeHappy · 07/01/2025 09:53

Many single women might find it worth considering—there's nothing to lose, and it could be an easy way to earn money. Some of the creators on OnlyFans are making millions. However, the real issue lies with the men, not the women.

Of course it does! 🙄🙄🙄

OldScribbler · 07/01/2025 13:34

MarkingBad · 27/11/2024 15:23

An hour's worth of sex?

In all my years I've never known a man to last an hour! Damn I'm probably too old for him to be interested in me.

It's true; the time that matters doesn't last an hour. By chance during my life I have known quite a lot about this, having lived with a highly successful "call girl" as they were described when I was a damn sight more attractive than now.

What really matters is whether there is something special about you or what you do. And above the £250 per hour mark it will have to be special. One piece of good news is that age, within reason, is no barrier to success.

It is certainly true that if you spend a whole night with someone you can charge a lot more.

I would hate to inflict a night of my snoring on anyone.

MarkingBad · 07/01/2025 13:57

OldScribbler · 07/01/2025 13:34

It's true; the time that matters doesn't last an hour. By chance during my life I have known quite a lot about this, having lived with a highly successful "call girl" as they were described when I was a damn sight more attractive than now.

What really matters is whether there is something special about you or what you do. And above the £250 per hour mark it will have to be special. One piece of good news is that age, within reason, is no barrier to success.

It is certainly true that if you spend a whole night with someone you can charge a lot more.

I would hate to inflict a night of my snoring on anyone.

Good points, especially on the snoring bit, I guess if you are paying the best part of 2k you'd expect a person of negotiable affection to put up with most snoring!

LoveLifeBeHappy · 07/01/2025 14:05

JoyousTern · 07/01/2025 11:05

Of course it does! 🙄🙄🙄

It really does :)

Fetchthevet · 07/01/2025 14:13

I'm surprised by the number of women who've said yes they would, on this thread. But surely most of the people who've said things like "hell yeah!" with a laughing face emoji would not actually be able to go through with it when faced with the reality? I personally couldn't face having sex with someone I didn't like / know for money, or for anything else really. I can't be that unusual.

JHound · 07/01/2025 14:13

Snoringfamily · 12/09/2024 23:34

If so, how much would it have to be?

Discussion at work quite a few years ago, inspired by the Demi Moore film. I was younger and had more money than now. If someone asked you to sleep with them for x amount of money-say half a million, would you? Missionary only, over quickly
I was aghast and said no, most said of course they would.

Now, I think I feel differently

Would you?

I would definitely have sex with somebody for half a mill.

Not anybody - there would be some parameters.

But if I guaranteed nobody would know - deffo.

I’ve had sex with plenty of men I was “meh” about so with a £500k sweetener - yes indeed!

JHound · 07/01/2025 14:15

Oh I just saw this was a zombie thread!

MrsMillyFluff · 07/01/2025 14:17

God yes definitely! And my husband says he'd have it up the 4rse for the same amount of money 😂

JHound · 07/01/2025 14:17

OldScribbler · 27/11/2024 14:18

The more logical and relevant question is would you have an hour's sex for £200 since that is the market rate.

Edited

Absolutely not.

overthinkersanonnymus · 07/01/2025 14:32

Definitely.

As long as I didn't have to smooch and it was over quickly, I'd probably do it a couple of times a year!

I've slept with people for free, and that gives me the ick!

AllyDally · 07/01/2025 14:46

Yeah for sure, don't know how much for, way less than £1m though.

Would do it for £200 per hour though, would have to be over 10k I reckon