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Would you have sex-missionary with someone if offered money

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Snoringfamily · 12/09/2024 23:34

If so, how much would it have to be?

Discussion at work quite a few years ago, inspired by the Demi Moore film. I was younger and had more money than now. If someone asked you to sleep with them for x amount of money-say half a million, would you? Missionary only, over quickly
I was aghast and said no, most said of course they would.

Now, I think I feel differently

Would you?

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MarkingBad · 07/01/2025 16:13

Fetchthevet · 07/01/2025 14:13

I'm surprised by the number of women who've said yes they would, on this thread. But surely most of the people who've said things like "hell yeah!" with a laughing face emoji would not actually be able to go through with it when faced with the reality? I personally couldn't face having sex with someone I didn't like / know for money, or for anything else really. I can't be that unusual.

Why so sure? If you wouldn't doesn't mean others wouldn't.

Some need more of an emotional connection to have sex and others don't. Neither is right or wrong.

Fluufer · 07/01/2025 16:17

Fetchthevet · 07/01/2025 14:13

I'm surprised by the number of women who've said yes they would, on this thread. But surely most of the people who've said things like "hell yeah!" with a laughing face emoji would not actually be able to go through with it when faced with the reality? I personally couldn't face having sex with someone I didn't like / know for money, or for anything else really. I can't be that unusual.

Nah, I think the opposite. Those saying no way would change their tune were they actually presented with half a million. Easy to turn down life changing money that isn't actually being offered....

Aswewalkinfieldsofgold · 07/01/2025 16:19

I would! I know I should say no but the truth is, sex can be meaningless and I can switch off. Not sure on the amount but 10k would make big difference!

namechangetheworld · 07/01/2025 16:39

Yes definitely. Half a million for a couple of minutes work. It would be a life changing amount of money for us and I'm pretty sure DH would wave cheerfully as I walked out the door - and I to him.

Arraminta · 07/01/2025 16:53

I had a lot of very, very mediocre and frankly forgettable sex with my first boyfriend. I really regretted losing my virginity to him.

Even if I regretted having sex with a random bloke for £500,000, at least I'd have half a million to cheer myself up with.

OldScribbler · 07/01/2025 17:19

MrsMillyFluff · 07/01/2025 14:17

God yes definitely! And my husband says he'd have it up the 4rse for the same amount of money 😂

Ha ha. Plenty of pervs pay for that - but a lot less.

Kenway · 07/01/2025 17:54

Aslong as the ££ was good and the arrangements were planned then yes

DullTinsel · 07/01/2025 17:58

Christ, I've shagged some right horrors in my time so getting paid for it would be the dream!

ClapKissBang · 07/01/2025 18:06

500k? Of course - if I was single. That’s easy work. Men usuually see sex as transactional, so I’d cash in! Heck, most guys will expect sex after they’ve bought you a glsss of cheapest wine.

LoveLifeBeHappy · 07/01/2025 19:35

JHound · 07/01/2025 14:15

Oh I just saw this was a zombie thread!

Hardly...

JoyousTern · 07/01/2025 22:07

OldScribbler · 07/01/2025 13:34

It's true; the time that matters doesn't last an hour. By chance during my life I have known quite a lot about this, having lived with a highly successful "call girl" as they were described when I was a damn sight more attractive than now.

What really matters is whether there is something special about you or what you do. And above the £250 per hour mark it will have to be special. One piece of good news is that age, within reason, is no barrier to success.

It is certainly true that if you spend a whole night with someone you can charge a lot more.

I would hate to inflict a night of my snoring on anyone.

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outdooryone · 08/01/2025 19:27

namechangetheworld · 07/01/2025 16:39

Yes definitely. Half a million for a couple of minutes work. It would be a life changing amount of money for us and I'm pretty sure DH would wave cheerfully as I walked out the door - and I to him.

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A couple of minutes? He has more control than most... Do things right and it's ten seconds...

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