Partner hates me

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My partner hates me he's always accusing me of causing arguments looks at skinny women when I'm a very big size 18 I'm trying to lose weight im nearly 1 stone down I think he hates e because I don't look attractive my stomach isn't flat ky boobs aren't perky I'm a brunette not blonde skinny or attractive in any way he tells I'm to big to wear nice clothes and that I should cover up im so insecure and don't deserve to live because I don't look at certain way I'm so insecure we're always arguing and I'm always crying

You can instantly lose loads of weight by ditching him.

Is there a reason you can’t leave him?

Bin him. Being single would be a million times better than sticking with this nasty little dickhead

Hi OP, you seem very down and alone and I am very sorry about that. Well done for losing a stone, that is a brilliant achievement and good starting point to continue. Constant arguments and being put down feed into a vicious circle of despair. How long have you been together? Has he always been like this?
I'm not sure what your domestic set up is, do you live together? You need to find the strength to get out of this relationship and learn to love yourself. It doesn't matter that you aren't blonde or skinny. Most people aren't. You are unique and special in your own right. Do you have friends/family you can lean on for support? Step by step and congratulations again on your weight loss.
Take care and sending you strength

He started on me at 5 o'clock he's got severe anxiety I woke him up from a nap like he asked me to i agreed then we I did he started being really nasty and snappy saying I was forcing him to go out for tea which he suggested before hand he's a prick I never pressured him into anything at all iv been crying because of him I really could kill him today..

I agree. Any reason you're still there OP. Can we help?

Get rid. He a waste of space.

Get rid of the loser!

It's over the years it's because Iv accused him of looking at blonde skinny women in particular I don't like him going out because I don't trust he won't be looking at other women he started on me today I'm devastated 😭

If you were sent this message by a friend what would you tell them to do? I think deep down you know leaving is the best option

Start making plans to move on. Even if you have children, start working on ways to separate.

I can't iv nowhere to stay Il have to give up my job because no childminder till 8pm

You will get another job.

I am assuming you aren’t married. Do you have somewhere you can go? Family?

You need to start over. Life can be so much better than the shitshow you are tolerating.

We just argue he has anxiety and im very insecure he won't even take me out for meals or anywhere with our children because he's scared hel trigger me with my insecurities I ain't all innocent iv accused him of cheating looking at other women but he also tells me to dress for my body and stop dressing like I'm a size 8 he's the reason I'm losing weight so I can be sexy for him..

We aren't married no iv got nowhere for me and 3 kids to go there's no room for us xx

Fuck. Him. Off.

This is a miserable existence for both of you. Stop making excuses, make a plan and get rid.

Speak for yourself the average size in the UK is 14/16 you're being offensive describing 18 as very big

It's messed up im a lot to blame I wish we could fix things but today he started on me for no reason..

As usual, first post nailed it

Why are you with him? 🤔

Indeed. Took the words right out of my mouth.

Oh please stop allowing this bullying manchild to ruin your life. He will never change, it will get worse not better so cut the ties now before he steals another day of your life. Just split ayourself.nd have more belief in

You need to move on just sounds awful, what is your housing situation?