edit I can point you to an Amnesty report from Autumn last which covers this question in quite good detail if you would genuinely like to know more on this specifically q. This might serve better than an enormous post here, since what i’ve typed is already big 😂
Similarly with some other resources providing context for eg: the apparent uneven balance of single male asylum seekers, etc. I don’t know how it works with posting links here but if it is permitted and you would like it, please let me know.
Ultimately, and for the sake of brevity, I think we can be frank about admitting that neither of us is going to change our overall perspective based on this conversation, which is ok. But I think it’s hugely important for both to be able to listen and take away facts from conversations like this. I firmly agree with you that asylum seekers should not ‘take away’ resources from established populations (I believe that they need not, either, with better governance). I can accept your perspective that there is a lot around UK immigration policy that needs be made far more transparent. I think that immigration, legal or not, and asylum issues are often conflated deliberately by bad faith actors and also by those in power for whom it is a handy distraction from an unwillingness or inability to resolve issues.
Ultimately, I think that, since the UK actually hosts less than 1% of the global refugee population, it is fair enough for the answer to “why are they here” to be “because we were there”, both in the sense of Britain’s colonial and military past, but also in the sense of the benefits our country has enjoyed by being the default language for global trade and industry. It’s not unreasonable to realise how a combination of both of these things makes the country an attractive prospect for people. What I will say, is that I think the ‘myth’of the UK being a tolerant, prosperous and welcoming place to rebuild a life has been hugely disestablished in recent years. Personally I think this is both a huge shame, and something for us to collectively feel shame for. Perspectives can, will, and do differ :)