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Why do people hate on my fur coat

353 replies

CleanCityBird · 21/07/2024 10:54

I’ve a fur coat that I inherited from my Grandmother. It’s a full length mink coat & I absolutely love it. I even wear it in summer.
As we’ve been having terrible weather I’ve been using it, and for the first time people are hating on me for wearing fur. They throw insults that I’m an animal killer, cruel, support the fur industry- on and on it goes.
I think it’s just jealousy. Others would love to own such a statement piece.
Are they all wrong and I’m right, I have a right to wear what I want, I didn’t kill anything & the coat comes from another era. Actually I’m saving it from landfill.

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tara66 · 21/07/2024 11:34

NO one has worn real fur for the last 30 -30 years - it's very passe. Cruelty to animals.

caringcarer · 21/07/2024 11:34

I wouldn't buy a fur coat but if I was given.one I would wear it. Otherwise the animals died for no reason.

Bonjovispjs · 21/07/2024 11:35

Jealous? 🤣 People in fur coats look gross 🤮

SurferDog · 21/07/2024 11:36

Wind 'em up and watch them go.

Squirrelsnut · 21/07/2024 11:36

DollopOfFun · 21/07/2024 10:58

Calm down Snoop Dog.

😂

StaunchMomma · 21/07/2024 11:37

Wow!

Not only would I not want to walk around with a few hundred dead animal skins sewn together on my back, I wouldn't want your attitude either.

Statement piece, my arse.

Some people care about animals more than 'fashion', OP.

You're giving arrogant.

LivingDeadGirlUK · 21/07/2024 11:37

I can understand why wearing fur would be practical in very cold and places but surely it would only be truly practical for the fur to be the lining rather than on the outside?

MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 21/07/2024 11:38

My gran has a fur coat she inherited it from her mother, who inherited it from her mother so it must be well over 100 years old. She would never buy fur but it seems almost wasteful just to bin it and her local charity shops wouldn't take it, so she wears it and tells people it's faux fur

ReframeFeelings · 21/07/2024 11:38

I can't believe people are actually biting at this. Well done Flossie Teacake.

RosesAndHellebores · 21/07/2024 11:38

I can’t really see a mink coat as any morally worse than a shearling or leather coat, except I don’t think anyone would have a mink pie. All too hot for comfort now most of us go everywhere by car.

However, and I’m sorry but I can’t resist @CleanCityBird ranch or wild darling? A friend of my grandmother’s once said that and without irony.

Saltedbutter · 21/07/2024 11:38

Spirallingdownwards · 21/07/2024 11:33

Most charities root them out and do not sell them. Once the daughter pointed it out I very much suspect the item was also removed as well as the post as they wouldn't want the adverse publicity.

But, again, what was the win?
And if your daughter was concerned, why didn’t she speak to a member of staff in the shop? Why Twitter? Publicity?

Athena51 · 21/07/2024 11:39

ReframeFeelings · 21/07/2024 11:38

I can't believe people are actually biting at this. Well done Flossie Teacake.

I know, 0/10 for effort, they're not even trying these day Smile

TamingofShrews · 21/07/2024 11:39

Vintage fur is obviously less morally bankrupt and I don’t think you’re wrong to keep it for its purpose.

However-

Assuming they’re all jealous of you is hilarious! I’d never be comfortable wearing one despite my opinion on you doing so, maybe they could just sense you’re a bit of a knob? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Worldgonecrazy · 21/07/2024 11:40

Fur is probably more ethical than fake petro chemical stuff.

wear it and ignore.

I have some lovely modern pieces and get compliments.

just remember not to carry bags with a shoulder strap as this will wear the shoulder. Ditto the pockets, if you use them the exterior will wear back to the leather.

MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 21/07/2024 11:40

LlynTegid · 21/07/2024 11:24

The only valid place for a fur coat I think is OK is for a historic theatrical piece. My grandmother had one not worn for many years, and that is what we did with it after her death.

This is a really good idea and when the time comes that would seem a fitting place for my gran's inherited one. She loves the theatre so would approve

Sethera · 21/07/2024 11:40

I'm surprised people realise it is real fur. Most fur now is fake. Is it one of those that has the animal's head incorporated into the design?

Kangarude · 21/07/2024 11:42

This must be a wind up as who would ever think that people are jealous of a mangy old fur coat? Especially one being worn in summer 😂

commonground · 21/07/2024 11:42

Haters are all Wrong Wrong Wrong. Bet your fur coat is fabulouso😉

housethatbuiltme · 21/07/2024 11:44

Honestly I wear tonnes of fake fur coats (love the look) and real leather/suede (use to own fake pleather but fake one desolve into microplastics) but frankly I have NEVER been jealous of a vintage real fur coat.

I have collected vintage clothes for years and yet to meet a fur that didn't stink to high heaven of 'rotting' damp and for lack of a better term 'dandruff'. The smell of real furs is just repugnant, its not like leather or even suede that can hold up well.

Beth216 · 21/07/2024 11:44

The term fur coat and no knickers springs to mind.

Probably because it's surely the only way you could wear it in august.

Megifer · 21/07/2024 11:44

People aren't jealous op, don't be daft 🤣

Fur isn't a statement piece anymore either, not a cool one anyway. IME the tiny minority of people who still wear fur are deliberately trying to be provocative, so I'd say the reactions you are getting are exactly the ones you want, so why are you whinging about it?

I gave my grans 4 full length mink fur coats to our local animal rescue 😊

SeeSeeRider · 21/07/2024 11:45

Is "hate on" the new Gen Z way of saying 'be nasty about'?

Beth216 · 21/07/2024 11:45

Sethera · 21/07/2024 11:40

I'm surprised people realise it is real fur. Most fur now is fake. Is it one of those that has the animal's head incorporated into the design?

Because that would make people really jealous. Barf.

housethatbuiltme · 21/07/2024 11:45

Sethera · 21/07/2024 11:40

I'm surprised people realise it is real fur. Most fur now is fake. Is it one of those that has the animal's head incorporated into the design?

People will know its real from the distinct smell, real fur absoloutly stinks of damp because unlike leather etc... its got no waterproof quality so just gets foisty, sweaty (especially if you wear it in summer) and mildewy.

Miffylou · 21/07/2024 11:46

You have a right to wear it. Other people have a right to say what they think about it. I doubt very much that anyone is jealous of it.