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Why do people hate on my fur coat

353 replies

CleanCityBird · 21/07/2024 10:54

I’ve a fur coat that I inherited from my Grandmother. It’s a full length mink coat & I absolutely love it. I even wear it in summer.
As we’ve been having terrible weather I’ve been using it, and for the first time people are hating on me for wearing fur. They throw insults that I’m an animal killer, cruel, support the fur industry- on and on it goes.
I think it’s just jealousy. Others would love to own such a statement piece.
Are they all wrong and I’m right, I have a right to wear what I want, I didn’t kill anything & the coat comes from another era. Actually I’m saving it from landfill.

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KenAdams · 21/07/2024 11:08

Try harder next time OP

Justcallmebebes · 21/07/2024 11:09

DollopOfFun · 21/07/2024 10:58

Calm down Snoop Dog.

Grin
NoWordForFluffy · 21/07/2024 11:09

Buddysbunda · 21/07/2024 11:07

I don't know, I kind of feel like if you are walking around in summer decked out in a fur coat you are looking for comment. Some will be good, some will be bad.

As a side note it's been warm but raining a lot where I am this summer, do you smell like wet dog when you get wet wearing a fur coat?

I'd imagine it's wet inside from sweat and wet outside from rain. So will definitely have an interesting smell to it!

SiobhanSharpe · 21/07/2024 11:09

“People have a ridiculous response to fur, most of which was farmed just like other animals- and nowadays mostly vintage. It's because it's fluffy, so must have come from nice fluffy animals.”
😂
Mink are not “fluffy” or “nice”… they are vicious predators and cause a real problem when they escape from mink farms. (Mink farms are horrible anyway, these days I think they’re mostly situated in Eastern Europe or Russia )

Shaketherombooga · 21/07/2024 11:09

I would judge you. You’re perpetuating the ‘fur is luxury and fashionable’ stance - even if it is ‘vintage’.
I wouldn’t have ivory objects for the same reason - not that I could because they are banned now old and new, in recognition of the fact that even ‘old’ ivory is wrong.

wearing it in summer? Have a day off, OP. No-one is jealous.

lokomoko · 21/07/2024 11:10

because even if it's old and inherited it perpetuates the idea of fur as an acceptable / desirable form of clothing and increases demand

Mrsdyna · 21/07/2024 11:10

Would they be happier if you binned your inherited coat and bought a polyester, piece of tat coat? That'd really help animals and the environment!

Let's see how long the polyester coat lasts, see if your grandkids can inherit that piece of junk! 😂

OhMyGiddyAunt · 21/07/2024 11:10

I think it’s just jealousy. Others would love to own such a statement piece.

....er, no!

You can bet your bottom dollar that 99.9% of people would not be feeling like that.

SonicTheHodgeheg · 21/07/2024 11:11

They aren’t jealous of your fur coat.

People are hypocritical when it comes to animal rights. There’s a reason why rabbits are used in posters of animal testing (they are fluffy with big eyes ) where as those same people often wear leather or eat meat without a second thought.

The cartoon representation of your coat is draping a corpse on your shoulders when fur isn’t massively different to a leather jacket or shoes. The hypocritical people that I spoke about a few sentences up see you like that rather than wearing something exclusive and special like you think.

marshmallowfinder · 21/07/2024 11:11

"Hate on" is such a ridiculous expression btw. Just hate, or object to, is fine.

I think it sounds awful. Why would anyone want to wear dead animals?

Mercurial123 · 21/07/2024 11:11

Hello Cruella.... everyone is jealous of you. You keep telling yourself that with your goady post.

DancingPhantomsOnTheTerrace · 21/07/2024 11:11

I think it’s just jealousy.

I think this is an extremely odd thing for you to think - you can't be unaware that people have ethical objections to fur? You can't think the whole of PETA is actually just people who really want a fur coat and are therefore jealous.

BowlOfNoodles · 21/07/2024 11:12

You said you are right they are wrong so why are you asking?

Thehillsarealivewithbutterflies · 21/07/2024 11:13

TheSandgroper · 21/07/2024 10:59

DC did astronomy club for a few years at school. I seriously considered getting one off Gumtree.

Was astronomy club v cold so a fur coat was needed?

thehappyotter · 21/07/2024 11:14

as passed down i would keep . But i wouldnt wear in public . A statement piece ???
what happened in the past was wrong . we can learn from it but you cant expect to wear dead animals that were just killed for their fur and expect no reaction ?

im not vegan but i come from a farming background and killing animals just to wear them seems vulgar .
that is just my opinion, can you imagine how many were killed just to make it ?
i wouldnt say anything to you but i can see why your having problems .

BowlOfNoodles · 21/07/2024 11:14

I'm not anti or for fur but I do question people who go to protests around fur while eating meat and wearing leather shoes

Buddysbunda · 21/07/2024 11:14

I just had a look and you can buy a vintage mink coat for €50 or nearest offer or a silver fox fur coat for €75 if you are that way inclined, surely if people were jealous they would just buy their own. It's hardly a luxury item out of most people's grasp.

Justrolledmyeyesoutloud · 21/07/2024 11:15

Very controversial to wear fur these says and l wouldn't say jealousy is the reason!

AmazingBouncingFerret · 21/07/2024 11:15

I was given a parka that has real fur lining and fur trimmed hood.
I haven’t worn it for years because winters have been too mild for it. You’re getting comments because you’re wearing it in July, you are literally being a massive melt.

SiobhanSharpe · 21/07/2024 11:16

marshmallowfinder · 21/07/2024 11:11

"Hate on" is such a ridiculous expression btw. Just hate, or object to, is fine.

I think it sounds awful. Why would anyone want to wear dead animals?

I think Pedants’ Corner should start a campaign to eradicate the use of expressions like ‘hate on’.
(and perhaps phrases with other superfluous prepositions too.)

Glitterbiscuits · 21/07/2024 11:16

Please don't feed the trolls.

Or maybe do feed the trolls, then we can hunt them and skin them...

thehappyotter · 21/07/2024 11:16

DancingPhantomsOnTheTerrace · 21/07/2024 11:11

I think it’s just jealousy.

I think this is an extremely odd thing for you to think - you can't be unaware that people have ethical objections to fur? You can't think the whole of PETA is actually just people who really want a fur coat and are therefore jealous.

i was also shocked by this .
My daughter complained that a charity shop was selling one , she actually put it on the charities twitter feed .
It was removed . people are disgusted not envious

Greenlittecat · 21/07/2024 11:16

Good one

thehappyotter · 21/07/2024 11:17

Glitterbiscuits · 21/07/2024 11:16

Please don't feed the trolls.

Or maybe do feed the trolls, then we can hunt them and skin them...

i thought she must be, but then you never know !

Greenlittecat · 21/07/2024 11:17

Glitterbiscuits · 21/07/2024 11:16

Please don't feed the trolls.

Or maybe do feed the trolls, then we can hunt them and skin them...

They would just be jealous of your troll coat!