To sleep with a 23 year old?

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Given that I am 42,he knows full well how old I am,we met on a dating site where he wanted to meet older women.ok or creepy age gap?

Yeah, it's a bit 😥 to see on here actually -
What, if you're a woman in your forties if you're going out with a man in their twenties they're only with you as they see you as a fetish, a kink?
Or that you as the woman is insinuated to be some sort of paedo (er hello they're in their twenties)

Sorry but WTAF is wrong with you

Surely you mean young enough to be OP's child?

What, that they think about shagging their mum?!
I repeat my original question. WTAF is wrong with you.
Maybe seek help

Sleep with who you want if it's consensual and they are of legal age. This is what men do.. and why not?

You have strange circles.

This is how I feel too!

If I knew my son was seeing a woman my age or older I’d wonder if she was a bit off in some way. And I’d feel a bit worried for my son. There’s a bit of an uneven power dynamic when one has life experience and one doesn’t.

But if we were men we would be telling her/him to go for it. I can't imagine a man in his forties starting a thread like this though...

For what its worth I wouldn't. Its not illegal or immoral in the sense you aren't taking advantage of them really. They are adults. But it would feel off to me. But thats me.

Then there are more than a couple of them around!

No, it isn’t, because it isn’t a normal thing.

You need help

God no, younger than my oldest and close in age to my middle child. But if that floats your boat…

Well arguably the graduate was 1st....

How old are you both now ? It's all good fun when you are 20&40 or 30 &50. 45 & 65, not so much.

I honestly don’t see why not if you are not looking for a serious relationship. It could be a fun fling for both of you.

Go for it.

I did.

Aged 46, I had a few hook ups with a 25 yr old. They were the best fun after a long marriage ended. Exactly what I needed. Except when he couldn't keep up with me. 😁

To all of you saying the age is too close to your child's, DS was 18 at the time. The guy did not remind me of DS or his friends in the slightest.

We both enjoyed it for what it was. A few afternoons of blissful sex.

Do it OP and enjoy!

This post is dripping with exactly the kind of nasty, spiteful judgement that’s driving the whole ‘against’ argument. Oh look, she thinks she looks young, but she actually looks at least as old has his mother, snigger snigger. Grow up!

Sleep with whomever you want. He is old enough and so are you to decide who you have sex with.
Have fun