Dhs parents ring us every Saturday and Sunday morning to see what we're up to. They always want to come over early. They often turn up earlier than arranged. They ring at 8am.
I got fed up of always worrying about being ready and having the house tidy (it's not a shithole just lived in). I was fed up of feeling harassed every weekend to be honest too, so I decided they'll have to take me as they find me. It's the weekend and I want to do things at my leisure.
On a couple of occasions I've still been in pyjamas when they arrived and mil has commented negatively or laughed at me.
If I've been upstairs showing and getting dressed mil wanders upstairs to find me.
Aibu to do as I please in my own home?