So DH and I have been together since we were 18 (34 now) married for 6 years.
he has become overweight, has sleep apnoea so I bought him a mouth guard and I can’t even look at it in the morning without wanting to puke as it is full of blood from his gums (gingivitis)
I feel awful as he also wants to be intimate, kissing etc but I just don’t want it anymore, I’m not attracted to him at all. I feel so so bad about this and don’t know what to do.
AIBU?
I’m going to hell.
Meowthh · 27/03/2024 11:01
Am I being unreasonable?
1138 votes. Final results.
POLLMeowthh · 27/03/2024 11:06
I feel so bad, he is the father of my children but I just can’t pretend anymore.
EspressoMacchiato · 27/03/2024 11:07
You need honest but gentle communication.
I wouldn’t be attracted to DH if he was overweight and he knows this and takes good care of himself.
6Y5T · 27/03/2024 11:12
It sounds like he would be better off without you tbh
6Y5T · 27/03/2024 11:12
It sounds like he would be better off without you tbh
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