I’m going to hell.

[Meowthh]

So DH and I have been together since we were 18 (34 now) married for 6 years.

he has become overweight, has sleep apnoea so I bought him a mouth guard and I can’t even look at it in the morning without wanting to puke as it is full of blood from his gums (gingivitis)

I feel awful as he also wants to be intimate, kissing etc but I just don’t want it anymore, I’m not attracted to him at all. I feel so so bad about this and don’t know what to do.

Grim OP. And utterly revolting. It's time to either clean him up or reappraise your circumstances. I recommend the latter. Fast.

It's not solely the weight gain, it's all his other combined habits.

Seriously? OP is in the wrong?

Good luck to him finding someone else to love him once he wheels out the earwax, bellybutton probing and plate licking!

OP how is it going?

You've got the ick. Theres no going back I don't think after reading through all your replies. I was with my ex when I was 20 for 6 years and he gave me the ick but I stayed for years more than I should have cos I still cared for him and didn't want to hurt him. When I eventually left I realised I should have done it a long long time ago. We are both happy now, I'm married & he's expecting a baby with his partner!