My DH never confirms plans with anyone. He often doesn't plan anything to start with, but he often keeps things vague until last minute.
This Easter weekend we are 'maybe' going to his parents house (about 3 hours from us so we would be staying overnight). I have other people messaging me saying 'shall we pop over during the long weekend for a wine/coffee' and a couple of other things.
I have asked him to confirm either way with his parents and he says 'yeah, i will' but then never calls them. When I press him he says 'oh well i'm sorry your friends are more important than my family' and 'you see friends all the time'.
I just messaged him and said 'are we going to your parents next Friday' and he replied 'not sure yet, why?'
I feel like tearing my hair out.
AIBU? Uptight?
AIBU?
To find this very very annoying
KungBooPanda · 22/03/2024 15:36
Am I being unreasonable?
1007 votes. Final results.
POLLPallisers · 22/03/2024 15:38
Tell him he has until 6 pm to decide if he is going to his parents or not. After that, you are making your own plans.
Brefugee · 22/03/2024 15:39
Make your plans. If he finally makes a plan with his parents that clashes with yours, tough tits for him, and he can go alone, surely?
KungBooPanda · 22/03/2024 15:54
@Bjorkdidit one of the things is a playdate for DS. but you're right -he can go to his parents with the kids without me if necessary. he will be totally fucked off with me though.
KungBooPanda · 22/03/2024 15:52
god just writing that last sentence - i realise i'm doing the frigging same as his parents! not pushing for clarity to not cause an argument! urgh
KungBooPanda · 22/03/2024 15:54
@Bjorkdidit one of the things is a playdate for DS. but you're right -he can go to his parents with the kids without me if necessary. he will be totally fucked off with me though.
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