Husband is meanypegs

[Belleweather]

I'm naturally very blonde, platinum. Menopause causing hair thinness and my DD cut my very long hair off for me to a chin length blunt bob 3 weeks ago. I'm only 49 Ffs. Today my husband (? Hmm) said to guests at a dinner that he thought I looked like Jimmy Saville. AIBU to never like him again? Utterly humiliated. I am a lot younger than him and he has done this sort of thing before. So hurt and embarrassed, Considering shaving my head.

Yeah, if she looks like JS and was a lone parent a month ago but now has a shitty husband.

If this is real, i would love to see the dickhead’s reaction to your shaved head!

Meanypegs is a bit twee, mean pig would have sufficed.

Clunk click, every snip

😭😂😂😂

This is the Age of the Trainee hairdresser.

I’m crying with you @WideLegPant
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What a strange week it has been on Mumsnet…

Accidental expensive double order at work warranting, at the very least, an “oh fuck!” instead gets “Oh crab cakes!”

Partner who is blatantly behaving like a cunt gets described as a “meanypegs” 🤦‍♀️

I think there has been another… 🤔

This wins the internet! 🏆

Hahahahaha

Omg this thread, I'm crying 😆🤣

😂😂 Much better than calling him meanypegs.

I mean I actually CBA to read the whole thread but I've yet to meet anyone who is naturally platinum blonde...

There are three in my family, sisters, my cousins. They get it from their mums side.

@CopernicusCalled is spot on.

He is meanypegs all right OP. Who does he think he is? I bet he's like Jimmifuckingcrankie 😐 treat yourself to a new do and a new DH.

Are you more of a Dave Lee Travis?

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He's not a Meanypegs - whatever that is- he's a tw*t.
Is his appearance perfect?
Thought not.

If you're like me and use mild language:

Tell him he has no right to treat you like s**t and talk to you like that. And that if he thinks it's acceptable, then he's welcome to leave.

It's not "a joke" or funny. It's embarrassing and humiliating. Explain that unless there's a grovelling apology which includes the cost of having your hair done somewhere fancy so you can feel better (maybe layers or a wolf cut or something), then you have no wish to be with him anymore.

Time for a new wardrobe too OP.

Tshirt with an arrow on it 'IM WITH CUNTYCHOPS' etc.

Maybe take the gold tracksuit off? Seriously though, very ill judged comment

I voted YABU because your husband's behaviour is completely unacceptable and, by using the nonsense word, you suggest there is something lighthearted about it.
You need to tell him how rude and cruel his comment was and take it from there. If he's not prepared to take you seriously and doesn't apologise I'd be planning to leave him. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with an abusive partner ?

Brilliant

DO you look like Jimmy Savile?

I'm reading 'meany pegs' as a signal that Belleweather isn't THAT upset over all this.

He's a wanker

I think that's hilarious. I would laugh my head off at that but also probably either get a pixie cut or grow it again.