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Using 'Daddy' in a sex context

226 replies

JellyPopz · 20/10/2023 21:55

It's always made me uncomfortable, Daddy is what my kids call their father and not what I would ever call a lover.

Starting the 'This Morning Show' and ep 2 the PA comes in and tries to seduce her senior that she is in a relationship with using a baby voice and calling him Daddy.

I'm hoping the whole 'Yes Daddy', 'Give it to me Daddy' nods to something else and isn't fuelling a very sick fantasy?!

Sidenote: pleased to say I have never had a man who requested this.

Can someone enlighten me? It's not like this show was filmed many years ago, it's base story is around Me Too!

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LylaLee · 20/10/2023 21:57

This plus the prevalence of incest porn & stepchild porn & schoolchild porn makes me feel sick. I think a lot of people are defective.

DeltaAlphaDelta79 · 20/10/2023 21:58

Its absolutely grim and any woman who said this to me in that context (or any really tbh) would be promptly shown the door.

Devilsmommy · 20/10/2023 21:59

Too fucking creepy by half🤢

Brightredglass · 20/10/2023 21:59

I use it but I'm in a D/s relationship. It's intoxicating, but it has to be your thing

JellyPopz · 20/10/2023 22:00

Yes, I didn't even touch on that. As a woman I enjoy sometimes watching pork, I go to well known websites and its an instant turnoff when there is any incest related video names, like 'step' makes it any better.

Perhaps it will be gone in 10 years. The 'sexy schoolgirl' role seems to have died a death from when I was a teen in 2000.

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Startyabastard · 20/10/2023 22:01

It's vomitrocious! 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

Terfosaurus · 20/10/2023 22:01

I chatted to a guy (OLD) for a while who asked me if I'd call him Daddy if we ever had sex.
We did not have sex.

Daddy is my Father. I most definitely do not want to be thinking about him when I'm fucking.

JellyPopz · 20/10/2023 22:01

What is that thing?
I'm presuming your saying it's different to paedophilia/incest?

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Devilsmommy · 20/10/2023 22:02

@Startyabastard excellent word choice there, love it😆😆😆

Cowlover89 · 20/10/2023 22:02

🤢

OurfriendsintheNE · 20/10/2023 22:08

So gross

JMSA · 20/10/2023 22:11

It's very much a thing in the kink (swinging) sexual world.
I cannot get my head around it personally.

Catsmere · 20/10/2023 22:11

It absolutely tries to normalise incest and child sexual abuse, as do all the relationships where "little" is used.

BlackForestCake · 20/10/2023 22:11

It's horrible. Definitely would not want to be with anyone who liked it

EnjoyingTheSilence · 20/10/2023 22:13

Glad I’m not the only one who finds it sickening

LuluBlakey1 · 20/10/2023 22:13

JellyPopz · 20/10/2023 22:00

Yes, I didn't even touch on that. As a woman I enjoy sometimes watching pork, I go to well known websites and its an instant turnoff when there is any incest related video names, like 'step' makes it any better.

Perhaps it will be gone in 10 years. The 'sexy schoolgirl' role seems to have died a death from when I was a teen in 2000.

You enjoy watching 'pork'. As a vegetarian, I think that's disgusting.

GilChesterton13 · 20/10/2023 22:15

As a woman I enjoy sometimes watching pork

Mmmmm, crackling...

sprigatito · 20/10/2023 22:16

JellyPopz · 20/10/2023 22:00

Yes, I didn't even touch on that. As a woman I enjoy sometimes watching pork, I go to well known websites and its an instant turnoff when there is any incest related video names, like 'step' makes it any better.

Perhaps it will be gone in 10 years. The 'sexy schoolgirl' role seems to have died a death from when I was a teen in 2000.

Fabulous typo there op 😂 I'm picturing you sitting cross-legged in front of the oven, watching a lovely gammon joint sizzle and drooling

Cowlover89 · 20/10/2023 22:16

GilChesterton13 · 20/10/2023 22:15

As a woman I enjoy sometimes watching pork

Mmmmm, crackling...

Mmm love crackling 😋

Theredfoxfliesatmidnight · 20/10/2023 22:16

Is it that different to calling a lover babe or baby? That's more weird in my opinion

Cowlover89 · 20/10/2023 22:17

Theredfoxfliesatmidnight · 20/10/2023 22:16

Is it that different to calling a lover babe or baby? That's more weird in my opinion

I call my partner babe.

Fionaville · 20/10/2023 22:17

Brightredglass · 20/10/2023 21:59

I use it but I'm in a D/s relationship. It's intoxicating, but it has to be your thing

What is a D/s relationship?

NahNahKissHimGoodbye · 20/10/2023 22:18

Highly inappropriate and frankly, quite vomit inducing.

MinnieL · 20/10/2023 22:19

It’s really common in America. I think it’s so weird and nothing I’d ever saw. It’d sound cringe coming from me anyway

Fionaville · 20/10/2023 22:19

I can't think of anything worse. The only time I call my DH 'Daddy' is when I'm talking to our kids.