Using 'Daddy' in a sex context

[JellyPopz]

It's always made me uncomfortable, Daddy is what my kids call their father and not what I would ever call a lover.

Starting the 'This Morning Show' and ep 2 the PA comes in and tries to seduce her senior that she is in a relationship with using a baby voice and calling him Daddy.

I'm hoping the whole 'Yes Daddy', 'Give it to me Daddy' nods to something else and isn't fuelling a very sick fantasy?!

Sidenote: pleased to say I have never had a man who requested this.

Can someone enlighten me? It's not like this show was filmed many years ago, it's base story is around Me Too!

You're referencing 'child abuse images' not 'porn'.

The words child and porn should not be used together.

I don’t mind hearing Babe, being used, but I’m not keen on hearing Baby. Paul Merton’s wife called him that on the campervan programme they did. I don’t enjoy HIGNFY the same way any more!

That's why people changed it to Zaddy

I had a man who wanted me to be his sub. He asked if I'd call him Daddy - I absolutely refused. It would be too weird - it doesn't matter if it's not about incest, because for me it would still have that connotation, and I wouldn't feel turned on at all. Sir or Master I could do, but not Daddy. I also don't like adults being called Babe or Baby.

There are times when I'm more than happy to kinkshame.

An ex of mine once asked me to call him daddy. It was that day he became an ex!!! 30 year later and he's in prison. Paedophile. 🤮

I call my father papa.

Daddy therefore doesn’t have the ring of “that’s my [actual] father” to me. But I still don’t like it!!

just imagine somebody calling you mummy…

I will however say that the usage of papi, mami (etc.) is a lot more fluid in Latin America.

Yeah it’s weird as fuck. Coincidentally though I was talking to my friend about it recently and she says it sometimes/likes it.

I could NOT! She’s actually really close with her dad too so it must be separate we didn’t divulge further cus different strokes for different folks and all that. But it’s a huge NO from me and it definitely comes from porn.

I don’t think that person was referring to child abuse.

all of these are somewhat mainstream porn categories offered by many sex workers / porn actors that are 18+.
”incest porn” is a category that is about performers play acting incest. Same for school girl porn. The „school girl“ may very well be 20+.

it is definitely worth having a conversation about why these categories are so mainstream, societal impact etc.

but this is (luckily!) not the same as child sexual abuse.

I don't believe that the porn industry is that self regulating!

@PumpkinsAndCoconuts "but this is (luckily!) not the same as child sexual abuse."

You sure of that, hmm?

It's fucking minging.

Whilst watching "pork"?

Squeal little piggy, squeal.

Why do you care if it's not something you would every do. There are millions of things people get turned on by that I wouldn't even dream of. Doesn't bother me at all.

Not my thing but I listen to a Podcast called Fated Mates (my guilty pleasure is romance novels which is what the podcast is about) and they had a hilarious episode on it: https://fatedmates.net/episodes/2022/7/13/s0444-daddy-romance-interstitial

By your thing I meant BDSM. A pp explained it well, it's use is to signify power and control. Different vibe to Sir. But I expect virtually no one to understand and that's fine

What I mean are scenarios with (often well-known) adult porn stars captioned as step-daughter/step-sister/teacher etc.

I used to think it was weird too, until I started sleeping with an older man. He is definitely daddy

And no, I'm not fantasising about sleeping with my father!

Similarly old-timey US references, but in West Side Story the teenaged Jets sometimes address each other as 'Daddy-o'.

Blanche Barrow (hung out with Bonnie and Clyde, married to Clyde's brother) also famously addressed her husband as 'Daddy' when they were out and about, so I don't think it's just used in the bedroom - PPs have made interesting points about it being more about authority than literal paternity.

I realise my two examples are from the 1950s and 1930s, mind...! 😂

It is really gross. I cannot believe people do this. Of course there are incestuous connotations.

I'm American and it's definitely common to call your father daddy. And to answer OPs question I think it's a total turn off to call someone daddy. It gives me the ick!

Considering it's mainly women calling their partners daddy are you suggesting that these women are paedophiles of some sort?

I'm involved in the kink world and it is categorically NOT used as a peadophile sort of thing 🤔

People who call their partner daddy are usually a sub, their daddy is usually the dom. It's about control, being the boss ect and having someone love you and Make you feel cared for

All sorts of fucked up in it's own way but its definetly not paedophile related

It's "a thing" everywhere but definitely more mainstream in the US. In the States it's not even seen as particularly bdsm.

Sorry if this is a bit pseud's corner but I think British society is traditionally more hierarchical so many of us would gravitate more towards a "yes sir" type thing ahead of "daddy"? Whereas USA society is less class-led but perhaps the nuclear family is more culturally dominant, like girls asking their dad's permission to go out etc. I've never seen my dad as any sort of authority figure whatsoever and that's borne out by dad portrayals in the British media - think the nice enough but ineffectual type dads in My Family or Waffle the Wonder-Dog or whatever, vs the archetypal fierce dad who ruled the roost in Clueless or all those American high school movies.

Exactly. I like blues too but I couldn’t think of any specific lyrics.

Assuming it's pulled pork you are referring to.