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Russel has spoken

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Whyismyfacealwaysdry · 22/09/2023 22:31

On Instagram, has anyone seen? What are your thoughts?

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benoticanarsed · 23/09/2023 08:28

People with Drug Alcohol Gambling addiction don't care who they hurt to get their fix. It's an illness and they lie steal hurt people because they need it. Is this not the same with an addiction to sex?

IncompleteSenten · 23/09/2023 08:29

He should go into politics. That's not the question, the real question is...

(Also the sleepy creepy shit is practically a requirement.)

benoticanarsed · 23/09/2023 08:30

It's a genuine question too I'm not saying they are the same.

pickyourown · 23/09/2023 08:36

benoticanarsed · 23/09/2023 08:28

People with Drug Alcohol Gambling addiction don't care who they hurt to get their fix. It's an illness and they lie steal hurt people because they need it. Is this not the same with an addiction to sex?

Possibly but I don’t see why it’s relevant. Either way he is a rapist. And surely a part of any ‘recovery’ is to take responsibility for your actions? So people commenting on how far he has come 🙄... he hasn’t at all.

benoticanarsed · 23/09/2023 08:37

@pickyourown Thank you.

RudsyFarmer · 23/09/2023 08:40

Mummyoflittledragon · 23/09/2023 08:16

Quite possibly. Some people just give you the creeps. It’s disconcerting to look them in the eye or to attempt to connect with their soul.

@RudsyFarmer
Trump isn’t the same. He’s human.

That’s true. I did see a whole Christ comparison on one of his videos as well 🤦🏻‍♀️

Once the narcissists get called out they do seem to spiral quite rapidly. He’ll be selling MAGA inspired merch before we know it.

KimberleyClark · 23/09/2023 08:41

Xrays · 22/09/2023 23:00

He’s delusional enough to think he’s some sort of messiah. He gives me Charles Manson vibes. Horrible man.

Agreed.

Naunet · 23/09/2023 08:41

Whyismyfacealwaysdry · 22/09/2023 22:45

I *Do think it’s odd though how they’ve been able to shut his channel down

Why? Some people’s channels get shut down just because they know what biological sex is, and that’s not even a crime.

Whatafustercluck · 23/09/2023 08:42

Xrays · 22/09/2023 23:00

He’s delusional enough to think he’s some sort of messiah. He gives me Charles Manson vibes. Horrible man.

He's not the messiah. He's a very naughty boy.

RudsyFarmer · 23/09/2023 08:50

Naunet · 23/09/2023 08:41

Why? Some people’s channels get shut down just because they know what biological sex is, and that’s not even a crime.

True that ☝️

LaffTaff · 23/09/2023 08:51

I'm in the reserve judgement camp; I think, hope, most people (who aren't on online chat platforms - ie the majority of the populace) are probably in that camp.
I used (in an earlier thread) the Alex Salmond case as an example of a man who'd been accused by multiple women and (upon being able to provide a defence, have the claims scrutinised by a jury, with a judge overseeing proceedings) was found not guilty on all charges. Salmond also claimed an establishment stitch up. I'm not accusing the women in the RB case of lying, what I am doing is giving a relevant example of why judgement should be (and IS, in law) reserved.

RB has used his promiscuous reputation as material for his stand up. Most comedians (particularly those in the black comedy/scandal genre) reference and ridicule distasteful things in their act; so his act can't (in any serious way) be considered 'proof' of anything.

There is no difference in the psyche of those siding with RB and those siding with his accusers; both positions are based on presumption and bias. The only reasonable position is the undecided one.

MartinChuzzlewit · 23/09/2023 08:52

He is just a gaslighting rapist.

@Lemoncellocake never has a phrase about a person been summed up so brilliantly!

MartinChuzzlewit · 23/09/2023 08:54

Did Alex Salmond spend years on TV degrading women, crossing boundaries with them, being openly misogynistic and having a sex addiction?

The ‘the establishment are against me shtick’ is fucking ironic considering that despite his fucking awful behaviour - the Andrew Sachs phone call being on of the vilest things I’ve ever heard - the same entertainment establishment continued to employ him. He only decided when he went all woo that he’s against that establishment

Janieforever · 23/09/2023 08:56

Whatafustercluck · 23/09/2023 08:42

He's not the messiah. He's a very naughty boy.

A very naughty boy. He’s not five, he’s a middle aged man accused of rape and sexual assault of multiple women,

AnImaginaryCat · 23/09/2023 08:56

tiggergoesbounce · 23/09/2023 08:22

He’s self-employed effectively he’s reaped the benefits of that. I doubt he’s paid fuck all tax for years, and now unfortunately this is the downside of self-employment

I was responding to someone likening it to him being suspended. I wasn't professing to know his employment status, i havent checked.

True he's not being suspended - he was never employed by YouTube. He's just not getting money for putting videos on YouTube. That's YouTube choice to not to give him money anymore. Why is that wrong?

No suspension. No silencing. No banning. Can still have the benefit of the medium. There's just no monetary benefit.

vlo · 23/09/2023 08:57

AlexaCanYouHearMe · 22/09/2023 23:05

Who is RUSSEL?

He’s RONNIE FUCKING PICKERING

Whatafustercluck · 23/09/2023 08:59

Janieforever · 23/09/2023 08:56

A very naughty boy. He’s not five, he’s a middle aged man accused of rape and sexual assault of multiple women,

It was a Monty Python reference.

Drivingone · 23/09/2023 09:00

AnImaginaryCat · 23/09/2023 08:56

True he's not being suspended - he was never employed by YouTube. He's just not getting money for putting videos on YouTube. That's YouTube choice to not to give him money anymore. Why is that wrong?

No suspension. No silencing. No banning. Can still have the benefit of the medium. There's just no monetary benefit.

Though he could still make money via YouTube. He could opt to do in-video endorsements, though I doubt anyone would employ him to represent their product or service.

bombastix · 23/09/2023 09:01

I feel very very sorry for his children and the women he has traumatized. My guess is he will carry on until he is forcibly stopped.

Qilin · 23/09/2023 09:04

Whyismyfacealwaysdry · 22/09/2023 22:45

I *Do think it’s odd though how they’ve been able to shut his channel down

His YouTube channel hasn't been shut down iirr. He just can't earn revenue from advertising in it. He can still have the channel, just not the money.

MrsElijahMikaelson1 · 23/09/2023 09:05

@BlurredEdges you do have to say alleged rapist. Whilst there was a 3 year investigation by media organisations, he has not been arrested, charged or been found guilty by a criminal court. Until that happens it is alleged, whether or not you believe his accusers; which I do.

benoticanarsed · 23/09/2023 09:05

Sorry i have two more questions? I'm autistic. These are genuine I'm not trying to be funny.

What's happened recently for the women to come forward now?

Are the police involved?

Alltheprettyseahorses · 23/09/2023 09:06

Maatandosiris · 23/09/2023 07:45

I think you’re confused of the position here. Let’s break this down into two separate components.

Does Brand come across as a misogynist? Does he say things I don’t agree with? Does he have a narcissistic personality? All those things are a matter of personal judgement. Firstly I wouldn’t leave my child with anyone I didn’t know. If I did know then and felt that their personality was something I didn’t like (for whatever reason I wouldn’t s leave my child with them). That’s my personal choice. The only consequence for the other person would be that they didn’t get to spend time with my child.

Now let’s move on to the criminal allegations. The test for rape is whether the following has occurred beyond all reasonable doubt.

The offence is created by section 1[1] of the Sexual Offences Act 2003:
(1) A person (A) commits an offence if—

(a) he intentionally penetrates the vagina, anus or mouth of another person (B) with his penis,
(b) B does not consent to the penetration, and
(c) A does not reasonably believe that B consents.
(2) Whether a belief is reasonable is to be determined having regard to all the circumstances, including any steps A has taken to ascertain whether B consents.
(3) Sections 75 and 76 apply to an offence under this section.

(4) A person guilty of an offence under this section is liable, on conviction on indictment, to imprisonment for life.

Note no where in there is there any reference to, would you leave your daughter with him, does he set your spidery senses tingling?

How do I know whether that offence has been committed? It needs to be tried in a court of law, evidence needs to be set out by each side in accordance with the same rules with the same opportunity and viewed fairly and equally. The Jury then decides whether guilty or not. Where the procedure is not followed there are rights of appeal.

so your question, whilst emotive is irrelevant to criminal accusations. You are confusing defending an individual with defending justice

Edited

My question isn't emotive at all. It's a test of belief. Either his defenders genuinely believe he is innocent and in the misunderstood, misquoted maxim 'innocent until proven guilty' so there would be no problem whatsoever with anyone - or they don't, in which case they wouldn't leave their daughter with him because common sense applies. Any waffling about court cases is irrelevant.

WarriorN · 23/09/2023 09:15

benoticanarsed · 23/09/2023 09:05

Sorry i have two more questions? I'm autistic. These are genuine I'm not trying to be funny.

What's happened recently for the women to come forward now?

Are the police involved?

One person has reported him to the police, not involved in this story.

Mummyoflittledragon · 23/09/2023 09:17

benoticanarsed · 23/09/2023 09:05

Sorry i have two more questions? I'm autistic. These are genuine I'm not trying to be funny.

What's happened recently for the women to come forward now?

Are the police involved?

This has been a long media investigation 3 or 4 years. RB is apparently extremely litigious so I imagine this has now been published as a conclusion to fairly robust information gathering and analysis. I think all information has been passed to the police.

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