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To ask about hidden gratitude?

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YourNameGoesHere · 04/09/2023 10:23

I've literally just had a pop up box about something to do with hidden gratitudes but it vanished before I'd had chance to read it in its entirety or take in what it was for. I can't see any threads about it but it looked like a new feature, has anyone else had this pop up?

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Ciarianna · 04/09/2023 11:16

haha

(also - if I click on add image, i want the dialog box to open, not to have to click on another link)

To ask about hidden gratitude?
Thisisnowmyusername · 04/09/2023 11:18

Would make more sense if everyone could see for example '10 people have thanked this post'. No need to give user names.

ICanBuyMyOwnBooks · 04/09/2023 11:26

If someone sends you 'thanks' do you see which users have thanked you? Or just a number?

Pocketfullofdogtreats · 04/09/2023 11:27

I just thanked you, Icanbuy .. . Let us know!
I like it as a feature.

HufflyShuffly · 04/09/2023 11:29

It's just a convoluted like button but without MN getting a reputation of having lots of controversial/unpopular opinions receiving likes as they can't be seen publicly.

ICanBuyMyOwnBooks · 04/09/2023 11:31

Pocketfullofdogtreats · 04/09/2023 11:27

I just thanked you, Icanbuy .. . Let us know!
I like it as a feature.

When I click on it, it shows the names of the Users who sent me thanks!

But I didn't get a notification so if you hadn't had posted to say you'd liked it, I wouldn't have known to return to the thread and check iyswim.

I thanked you back so you can see it!

travelogue · 04/09/2023 11:38

Is this just on the web version not the app?

MonumentalLentil · 04/09/2023 11:38

YourNameGoesHere · 04/09/2023 10:59

Yes your quote button is now only accessible on the three dots which seems an odd decision as its a useful feature and report is now where bookmark was which is driving me bonkers.

Guess all this messing about is the result of someone on work experience that has no experience (or common sense).
I don't want to have to keep scrolling up to find the quote button, although there are people that will quote an entire 50 paragraph OP in every reply so maybe it will stop that...
These 'improvements' are like 'new and improved' they never are.

HakunaMatiÅ‚da · 04/09/2023 11:39

Thisisnowmyusername · 04/09/2023 11:18

Would make more sense if everyone could see for example '10 people have thanked this post'. No need to give user names.

That’s what they want to avoid - popularity contests through ‘Likes’

tattygrl · 04/09/2023 11:42

I like it. Sometimes you do want to give a bit of appreciation to someone for their comment without necessarily quoting it. I like that the "likes" (thanks in this case) aren't visible. Keeps all comments equal.

MonumentalLentil · 04/09/2023 11:43

YourNameGoesHere · 04/09/2023 10:34

I have a little number next to the hand telling me how many people have thanked (liked) my posts. It seems a little pointless.

I like your post but haven't used the thank button because I want the quote button back where I can find it.

I think it is annoying and a waste of time.

Ciarianna · 04/09/2023 11:43

HakunaMatiÅ‚da · 04/09/2023 11:39

That’s what they want to avoid - popularity contests through ‘Likes’

@MNHQ
for the love of christ PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE put the quote back where it was!!!!

i'd like 'likes'

PhilMitchellsleatherbomber · 04/09/2023 11:44

HakunaMatiÅ‚da · 04/09/2023 11:39

That’s what they want to avoid - popularity contests through ‘Likes’

I’ve just read a thread and posters are saying I’ve sent you a thanks and posters are replying saying thanks for the thanks…….

BackToOklahoma · 04/09/2023 11:47

I like that it’s hidden although I imagine the wannabe queen bees won’t. I think it’s a good decision by mumsnet to do if this way.

YourNameGoesHere · 04/09/2023 11:48

MonumentalLentil · 04/09/2023 11:43

I like your post but haven't used the thank button because I want the quote button back where I can find it.

I think it is annoying and a waste of time.

Yes having reply there instead of quote is just a really stupid decision. The quote feature is actually one of the most useful features so not having in under a post is very annoying!

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JaneJeffer · 04/09/2023 11:50

"Give thanks" sounds weird to me. Shouldn't it just be thank?!

Give thanks and praise to the Lord.

JaneJeffer · 04/09/2023 11:52

Also shouldn't there be a "you're welcome" feature so you can show the thanker you appreciate them?

ICanBuyMyOwnBooks · 04/09/2023 11:55

Yy it feels a bit rude and unfinished. Someone thanks you but then what ... they don't even know if you've seen it. And if you have seen it, the only way you can acknowledge it is to post about it 😄Maybe that's the point - encourage even more engagement.

YourNameGoesHere · 04/09/2023 11:55

JaneJeffer · 04/09/2023 11:52

Also shouldn't there be a "you're welcome" feature so you can show the thanker you appreciate them?

As per a previous poster apparently you just thank them for their thank you and this render the whole thing a never ending circle of thanks. Very British really. 🤣

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ICanBuyMyOwnBooks · 04/09/2023 11:57

Ciarianna · 04/09/2023 11:43

@MNHQ
for the love of christ PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE put the quote back where it was!!!!

i'd like 'likes'

They could put thanks where share is. Who ever shares anything from MN?

JaneJeffer · 04/09/2023 11:59

It's probably the most useless idea MN has come up with. It's completely pointless when you can just type thanks on the actual thread Confused

BarbieKew · 04/09/2023 12:00

So what does it look like when you get a thanks?

(please someone thank me so I can see!)

YourNameGoesHere · 04/09/2023 12:00

ICanBuyMyOwnBooks · 04/09/2023 11:57

They could put thanks where share is. Who ever shares anything from MN?

I don't seem to have share anymore. Using on a mobile I now have

Save, thanks, reply, report and bookmark.

Hadn't even noticed share had disappeared. 🤣

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NotTerfNorCis · 04/09/2023 12:01

It's a good idea. I've often wanted to 'like' a post, but the problem with public likes is that it can turn into a competition.

ICanBuyMyOwnBooks · 04/09/2023 12:03

I'm on a laptop so share is still there. MN is too small on my phone.