People keep saying I'm slim

[Mapoftheproblematique]

I'm 169cm and weight fluctuates between around 9st 2 and 9st 5 depending. It's slender but a perfectly healthy weight, in fact I've known people of my height weigh much less.
Anyway, over the last few months I've had a couple of comments both to my face and behind my back about how slim I am, how people can't believe it, how there's 'nothing of me '.
I admit I'm slim but I'm hardly waif-like. I'm quite pear shaped too.
We're all shapes and sizes, I just don't see myself as incredibly thin.

What’s your AIBU?

are your diamond shoes also too tight?

Does it bother you? If so why? People aren't saying anything nasty. Not quite sure what you are looking for here?

OP is peacocking 🤦‍♀️

What's 196cm in feet ?

It’s a foot, she’s super fat.

or even 169 😀

I'm the same weight and height as you and whilst I'm on the smaller side of average I wouldn't even say I am "slender", I definitely have wobbly bits and like you am pear shaped. A couple of comments, probably well meant, over months doesn't sound too bad to me. If you're happy with your weight just ignore them.

The word slim to me = not fat.
It does not mean too thin

I hate the word slim. It's too close to slime.

As you were.

It’s 5’ 6.5”.

5 foot 6.5 inches. I'm about the same. I don't get these comments but probably because they knew they'd receive a death stare in response. I hate comments on my appearance. Also hate diet talk. Have never been on one nor want to.
Ignore or stare is my advice and they'll know not to.

😂

Do you mean to Google that? It would have been quicker 🥴

Ok🙄

I'm about 2 inches taller and about 7lbs heavier.

I always get told how slim I am. I'm not particularly slim. I'm not overweight but I'm not slim. I find it a bit odd.

I've also been a lot heavier so it's not because I'm fat shaming either.

….and?

I did Google it but no it wasn't quicker.

Thanks for your really helpful suggestion though. 🙄

Weird that you do height in metric and yet weight in imperial OP.

What do you mean you ‘admit you’re slim’ - it isn’t a crime.

You aren’t unusually slim unless you are a very very solid build.

You’ve just run into a few odd bods

You definitely aren’t about to fall down a grating so no need to panic (or start odd bod threads)

I'm 1cm shorter and a stone lighter and I don't get people saying this very often. You sound normal size to me.

No one likes a smart arse

💣

People tell me all the time how beautiful my hair is. But I see the split ends.

<weeps>

Snap. “Colleagues and family say we’re not allowed to talk about diet in front of Lamelie”

But, I mean, she’s right.