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That teachers should be held legally responsible for erroneously teaching children they can change sex?

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WandaWomblesaurus · 18/06/2023 01:18

https://www.tiktok.com/@urgalcrystall*/video/7245383841873923355?r=1&&t=8dEqrgzepeE&socialsharing=v5

Listening to this ridiculous teacher today bullying two students, isn't it time that we started holding teachers responsible for indoctrinating children into thinking they can identify as anything they feel like?

How did we get to this point where kids are so afraid to speak up because of being bullied by classmates or even by teachers?

YABU - I identify as a cat
YANBU - teachers should face the legal consequences for encouraging children to identify out of their biological sex.

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FourTeaFallOut · 18/06/2023 13:34

JudgeJ · 18/06/2023 13:13

I think the majority of teachers would be delighted to simply stick to the curriculum and leave all the extraneous stuff to parents etc., it would certainly have a positive impact on retaining teachers because many are sick to the back teeth of being pushed by agendas that are simply this season's box ticking exercises.

I bet. Surely the unions could act to represent the concerns of teachers here? They are being asked to operate on a tightrope in a situation which is increasingly hostile without any guidance.

Mischance · 18/06/2023 13:42

It is such a thorny topic. As a school governor I am about to attend a meeting about this as we asked to see exactly what the pupils will be told. We will be clear about this needing to be both factual and compassionate of others' views and needs. But number one priority is factual.

noblegiraffe · 18/06/2023 13:45

FourTeaFallOut · 18/06/2023 13:31

How is that relevant to the discussion here, where posters have not stated any of that personal information?

The OP says "Listening to this ridiculous teacher today bullying two students, isn't it time that we started holding teachers responsible for indoctrinating children into thinking they can identify as anything they feel like?"

"We started holding teachers responsible"

What, with public pile-ons and mass shaming? Putting them on tiktok?

Teachers are caught in the middle here of an extremely toxic debate, with no fucking support from the government, or from anyone, tbh. Like I said previously, we also have teachers being sacked for teaching what you would consider the 'right' side of the debate.

The government have still not released their trans guidance for schools, and when they do, it will be for consultation. Why? Because it's not a decided matter, how to balance the fact that gender reassignment is a protected characteristic under the Equality Act and that this includes children, with the medical concerns raised about transitioning children.

It's a fucking mess.

Every single teacher in the country should refuse to say anything at all on this issue until the government confirms what it is 'safe' to say, that will not get them either sacked, or publicly humiliated.

PSNonsense · 18/06/2023 13:54

So teachers and anyone else should absolve themselves of all common sense until the government say otherwise. Righto.

FourTeaFallOut · 18/06/2023 13:56

Every single teacher in the country should refuse to say anything at all on this issue until the government confirms what it is 'safe' to say, that will not get them either sacked, or publicly humiliated.

Well I completely agree with that. So we can start there.

I don't think the op meant accountability inasmuch as we should identify this teacher, her home and don't forget to bring a box of eggs.

The good thing about guidance means that teachers can be better held to account when their response goes beyond the acceptable remit when dealing with students. Surely there can't be any part of you that thinks a reasonable response looks like telling pupils that they will need to change schools if they continue to hold such a defendable, reasonable and commonly held belief?

noblegiraffe · 18/06/2023 13:59

PSNonsense · 18/06/2023 13:54

So teachers and anyone else should absolve themselves of all common sense until the government say otherwise. Righto.

Like I said, it doesn't matter what you think is common sense or the decent thing to do, teachers are losing their jobs/in the wrong on both sides.

ATeamsvan · 18/06/2023 14:08

I'm not convinced the protected characteristic does apply to children. The EHRC guidance says this: The Equality Act says that you must not be directly discriminated against because:

  • you have the protected characteristic of gender reassignment. A wide range of people identify as trans. However, you are not protected under the Equality Act unless you have proposed, started or completed a process to change your sex.
Very few trans children or teens would fall into that category.
noblegiraffe · 18/06/2023 14:10

If it was clear that children cannot propose to change their sex, then there wouldn’t be this mess, would there?

Callyem · 18/06/2023 14:18

In 50 years time, we will look back on transphobia in shame, the way we now look back on homophobia.

Teacher need immediate government guidance to protect them from villification.

ATeamsvan · 18/06/2023 14:21

No one can change their sex.
A child could be put on puberty blockers, I would view that as a sign they were on a path to gender-transitioning.
not just changing name or clothes

IncomingTraffic · 18/06/2023 14:22

Callyem · 18/06/2023 14:18

In 50 years time, we will look back on transphobia in shame, the way we now look back on homophobia.

Teacher need immediate government guidance to protect them from villification.

I think exactly the opposite will happen.

Hopefully in 50 years time we will have recognised that what you wear/like or any other aspect or ‘presentation’ has sod all to do with biological sex and the whole medical-pharmaceutical industry looking to profit from promoting and treating gender dysphoria will be looked at with sadness and a sense of shame.

Fairislefandango · 18/06/2023 14:34

So teachers and anyone else should absolve themselves of all common sense until the government say otherwise. Righto.

Are you suggesting that individual teachers should be expected to teach whatever they see fit, based on just their own opinion of what constitutes common sense, rather than following school policy or the curriculum?

Farmageddon · 18/06/2023 15:58

Callyem · 18/06/2023 14:18

In 50 years time, we will look back on transphobia in shame, the way we now look back on homophobia.

Teacher need immediate government guidance to protect them from villification.

Eh no, in just a few years time this trend will die out among young people - they are already getting bored of it and there are many young de-transitioners speaking out about the harm that has been done to them.

What will be left is autogynephillic males who are acting out their fetishes in public and expecting us all to play along. Gross.

FourTeaFallOut · 18/06/2023 16:03

And abundance of women hobbled by the effects of testosterone on their body.

WandaWomblesaurus · 18/06/2023 16:58

@noblegiraffe I said legal consequences for abusing children.
I did not say string them up on social media.

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WandaWomblesaurus · 18/06/2023 16:59

Callyem · 18/06/2023 14:18

In 50 years time, we will look back on transphobia in shame, the way we now look back on homophobia.

Teacher need immediate government guidance to protect them from villification.

In 50 years time we are going to see the full range of side effects to all this experimental hormones and surgery on children that will be unthinkable.

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Madeintheshade · 18/06/2023 17:07

The discussion in the video (albeit in the first minute, I didn’t listen to any more) is around gender. Gender, as anyone calling themselves a feminist should know, is performative. Masculinities and feminities are available to anyone regardless of their sex assigned at birth.

Sex can be considered as distinct from gender, gender expression and sexual orientation. You can argue there are two biological sexes (although this ignores intersex), but there are many genders.

Madeintheshade · 18/06/2023 17:14

TiptoeThroughTheToadstools · 18/06/2023 02:14

I have withdrawn my kids from this particular part of the curriculum. I told the school I am happy for them to have age appropriate sex education, however I will not have them thinking that men can change in to women.

Of course men can’t change every aspect of their biological make up to those of a woman.

But they can identify as a woman? What’s wrong with that?

And we can recognise them as de facto women. It’s similar to adoption. An adopted child isn’t the biological relation of its parents, but we accept the ‘legal fallacy’ that it is their de facto real child.

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 18/06/2023 17:15

SunnyEgg · 18/06/2023 11:03

I believe it is illegal, yes, to record someone without their permission, and then post that recording online with identifying information. I am willing to be corrected if wrong.

I‘m not sure about this as we see so many people end up in recordings - the Starbucks incident, today a video on partying is out, so many more that don’t come to mind atm

Would be good for someone in the know to clarify

What about cctv then? Do shops just assume consent? And railway stations? And traffic junctions?

I suspect the recorders had an idea that they might be misrepresented, since they were already being ticked off, and were getting their retaliation in first. Maybe they thought they were going to be threatened with exclusion?

TiptoeThroughTheToadstools · 18/06/2023 17:19

@Madeintheshade IMHO no they can't identify as a woman, they are not and will never be. Its a large scale mental health crisis and neither me, or my children will be put at risk by predators that want to access private women's spaces.

AlisonDonut · 18/06/2023 17:19

Gender GP?

That's your reference for info?

Holy cow.

nebulae · 18/06/2023 17:19

noblegiraffe · 18/06/2023 14:10

If it was clear that children cannot propose to change their sex, then there wouldn’t be this mess, would there?

If it was clear that nobody can change their sex, then there wouldn't be any of this mess.

IncomingTraffic · 18/06/2023 17:20

They put signs up telling you they’re recording you with cctv.

IncomingTraffic · 18/06/2023 17:21

Callyem · 18/06/2023 17:16

Gender GP is not a source anyone should be going to for facts.