I've been told to Fuck off / shut up / and get out by H for not wanting sex

[fadaaaah]

I offered other more simple ' services ' to him, but he kept pushing for more. We hadn't started anything physical.

I said from the beginning, I'm not up for it at all, but happy to focus on his needs and not get too involved.

He kept wanting to do all this stuff ( dress up etc ), but i had already said that I wanted no part of that this evening, but I am happy to make him happy if he would like.

I got told to fuck off and get out. I left, then he later came in to the room where I was to get something and he again told me to leave him alone.

He shouted from where he was that I was a joke.

I am still awake, but half expecting him to come in and have a go at me again. He is in such a huff.

Why does it have to be so hard !

If this is for real you are in an abusive marriage. He sounds like a complete monster. Do you actually think this is normal?

Do you have children with him?

You need to get as far away from him as possible.

It is only hard if you allow the nasty entitled behaviour.
If anyone should fuck off its your dh.
Get some boundaries and demand a level of respect.

If you tolerate anyone speaking to you like that, let alone your husband, you are being unreasonable.

It doesn’t have to be this hard. Life can be simple, joyful and free from abuse.

get rid of him!

What would you do ?

What an obscene way to behave, you must know no-one should be abused or coerced into sex? He's disgusting.

Please, please, get out of this situation. Do you have family who can help?

Leave him. He's abusive.

This is not what most marriages and relationships are like.

This is not normal.

You are not in the wrong here.

You need to leave your husband

Why are you choosing to live like this?

Your Husband is being abusive. There is no excuse for this. Is there somewhere else you can stay tonight? No one should have to put up with this kind of behaviour. I hope you are okay x

OP this is terrible, he's abusive and honestly I'd be taking steps to leave, his behaviour is not normal and you shouldn't tolerate it.

Wtf why do women put up with that

In the fucking bin with him

You are posting as you know this is wrong.
just one of those things would have me leaving my husband. Just one. This isn’t normal behaviour. I promise you this is abusive and normal kind men don’t act this way. We

Wow, how can you resist him? What an irrisistable seduction technique - yelling at you and abusing you. It's such a turn on.

I would tell him to go fuck himself and it would be over. There would be no love for a man who could behave like that toward me.

My word, there’s no way anyone would speak to me like that! Tell him to fuck off & come back when he has some respect. He’s in a mard with you?! So off putting behaving like a Randy teen then getting shitty.

I would tell him to never speak to me like it again because if he did I would leave. If it happened again I would leave. Actions have consequences. What would you do fadaaaah?

Leave him. Yesterday.

It’s seriously so far from normal it’s shocking. You can’t actually this is normal?

Wtf!? Run. Like... leave him now. Jesus.

@Thepeopleversuswork I am not happy about it. But part of me feels bad because I haven't ' put out ' regularly for a long time and he is frustrated about it.

"Put out"?🤮 fuck that and fuck him.

Leave. As soon as you can. This is abuse.

PLEASE PLEASE be careful about some previous responses of telling him go fuck himself etc. if he is capable of getting this aggressive over sex then do you really know what he is capable of?

What is the situation with housing? Your house? His house? Shared? Are there children? All of this will affect what advice people can give you.

You poor thing. What a prick