To think this is just rude?

[premiumskint]

Been dating a guy for past 4 weeks, we've been on 6 dates so really early days. I'm pretty laid back, as is he, so I've just been going with his texting communication - which has became more and more sporadic. But tried not to dwell on it as I have done in the past with others and just kind of matched his messages. Kept it light and breezy.

Last message was sent by me on Friday evening after a day of back and forth voice notes. Then I didn't hear a peep all weekend. That's fine just assumed busy with Easter etc.

Nothing yesterday then a text today just asking how I was. I replied, he replied, I replied and this was 6 hours ago and there's been nothing since. In this time he has posted on instagram, liked my story and sent a 😍 to my story.

I find it rather rude. My last message was definitely one he could of replied to where I asked him two questions.

I can just feel the change in communication and honestly if it weren't for him viewing my story and posting one himself, I could have pretended in my head that he'd been busy with work and then fell asleep.

If someone's lost interest then that's fair enough but why even start a conversation to then just ignore me AGAIN.

I was actually assuming today that I probably wouldn't hear from him and was feeling okay and then he text me and is now not responding and I'm back to feeling shit.

Should I block his number? I almost want to as sick of sitting waiting for a text. Or is that petty?

Hi folks

Can we have a bit of peace and love now, please?

I can't believe the pasting the OP has had on this thread. Very unnecessary.

I get it @premiumskint and I'm so bloody glad I didn't have to do all my dating in the age of SM. I'd have been an utter nightmare.

IMO what you did was fair enough. You knew you weren't reacting to the situation in a healthy way so you shut the situation down. Yes maybe you could have told him blah, blah, blah but it sounded like you were being fazed out anyway.

This place is strange sometimes? If a woman starts a thread about a man she is dating messing her about it's usually a unanimous block him. Cant see why this thead went the other way???

Here here!

Oh who cares what men do and don't like?
They want relationships/sexual partners as much as women do (often more) so maybe they need to start thinking about what women like for a change. If women stopped climbing over themselves to do what they think pleases men, then men would have to put up with us as we are or do without.

What do your sons say about people who don’t read stuff properly and get the wrong end of the stick?

Sorry you've experienced the bullying on here op you sound like a lovely self aware person and I'm sure once you work through some issues you will be very happy. For what it's worth I think in our guts we know if a person is losing interest and I think you followed yours. You're entitled to block for whatever reason you want.

What year are you from?! 😂😂

Stay away from this thread OP. You've followed your instincts. Good for you.

Oh dear Lord. You will make a terrible MIL. Good luck getting on with your future DILs (unless your sons choose women with very low self esteem as they quite possibly will).

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Nooyoiknooyoik

Both DILs are lovely, mature women who have their own friends, hobbies, social lives and SELF ESTEEM. I get on brilliantly with both of them

Of course you do because you all live in 1950.

Sorry people on here are so nasty OP, I know what it’s like with OLD they see you for a while then find someone they’re more interested in but don’t want to look like the bad guy so give you a message here and there until you get fed up and end it.
you have done the right thing i’m sure you will know when the right man comes along 😊

Lol