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Would you date a man who cross dressed?

576 replies

Supernova23 · 03/04/2023 09:06

Compatible in most ways but they admitted from the beginning they cross dressed. Would you?

OP posts:
justforthisnow · 03/04/2023 09:06

No.

AdoraBell · 03/04/2023 09:07

No

waterlego · 03/04/2023 09:07

No.

Zola1 · 03/04/2023 09:07

No, because I wouldn't find it attractive or want it to be something I was involved with

MrsHughesPinny · 03/04/2023 09:07

Personally, no. I hold no judgment about it if it makes someone happy but I wouldn’t be ok with it in a partner.

Sarahconnor1 · 03/04/2023 09:07

No

user1492757084 · 03/04/2023 09:08

No, unless you find that single trait very attractive about him.

EstherUrsula · 03/04/2023 09:08

No
no
and
hell no

moonriverandme · 03/04/2023 09:08

No. It could be the start of a very slippery slope.

ToBeOrNotToBee · 03/04/2023 09:08

Absolutely not. Huge turnoff.

Would feel the ick being in the same room tbh.

halfsiesonapotnoodle · 03/04/2023 09:08

God, no thanks.

BadgerFacedCoo · 03/04/2023 09:08

No.

But any sort of fetish would be a no for me. Cross dressers. Those people who dress as animals. Spurs fans. People who like whipped. No thanks.

knittingaddict · 03/04/2023 09:08

Knowing what I know now it would be a NO.

(What I know isn't from personal experience, but the current climate around these issues.)

olympicsrock · 03/04/2023 09:08

No

Alwaysworryingoversomething · 03/04/2023 09:08

No

1000yellowdaisies · 03/04/2023 09:09

Not in a million years.

Twoshoesnewshoes · 03/04/2023 09:09

NO

ISpyCobraKai · 03/04/2023 09:09

Only if it was Harry Styles

StylishM · 03/04/2023 09:10

Absolutely not.

DisplayPurposesOnly · 03/04/2023 09:10

Does he look good or ridiculous? Does he do it public or only at home?

I'm honestly not sure.

Zebedee55 · 03/04/2023 09:10

Not for me thanks.

But, good for those that can.

FrancescaContini · 03/04/2023 09:10

No. Never. Immediate ick.

Stepuptowardsinfinity · 03/04/2023 09:11

No way. Deeply unattractive.

Laiste · 03/04/2023 09:11

No.

Can't vote as you didn't give which way round to do it.

ArcticSkewer · 03/04/2023 09:11

I'd casually date them, and have done in the past.
I don't think I'd have a problem with a longer term more established relationship but I'm just not in the market for that anyway.