Would you date a man who cross dressed?

[Supernova23]

Compatible in most ways but they admitted from the beginning they cross dressed. Would you?

Not a chance. I’ve read too many Trans Widows stories. It would give me a massive ick.

No. I have had a relationship with a guy who liked wearing knickers during sex, and I found that it escalated in frequency and every time we had sex there had to be some kind of fetishy component. We could never have normal unadorned sex. It was a massive turnoff and made me feel like I wasn't good enough for him. And it was just very boring and samey really.
Personally, I like sex and don't really feel the need to bring a load of lacy nylon into the mix in order to enjoy it 🤷

I have, I think?

He had no issues with his sexuality etc, wore nail varnish but not make up, dyed his hair different colours.
Wore dresses occasionally. He'd worn his mums dresses and sisters from being a little lad and felt if he liked how it looked aesthetically, nobody else's business.
For him it wasn't something he'd do privately such as wearing women's underwear with heels etc, it was simply if he liked the look of something, he felt comfortable enough to wear it.

I wear mens clothes but I'm very feminine, but love baggy hoodies and jumpers, so I like men's fit.
I don't think I'm a cross dresser though, but maybe I am 👀

Spurs fans 😂😂

No

I don't know. It'd depend on the person and their reasons.

No.

I would find it a massive turnoff personally.

If I didn’t I would casually, probably not long term just because it can be the tip of much more complex issues.

It depends. If you are talking about fully dressing as a woman, then I think I would struggle with that - it would kind of be like being in a relationship with two different people. If you are talking about not worrying about gender specific clothes (men wearing skirts, eye liner etc), then that would be okay.

Nope-start of a slippery slope. But I am thinking bloke wanting to look like a stereotypical woman.

Harry styles etc type dressing ie owning it and making it their own style whilst maintaining their masculinity- maybe.

For me it would depend. I could probably tolerate it if it was a kink or just around the home. Don't think I'd be brave enough to go out in public with a cross dressing partner. I'd certainly need to be sure whether it just stopped at cross dressing or whether it was going to eventually turn into transition etc

Depends why.

If DH wanted to wear a dull coloured midi skirt on a hot summer's day because it was nice and cool, I'd be fine with that.

If he was doing it for attention, or any kind of fetish, or because he had some misguided notion that he actually was a woman, then NO! Massive issue.

😂 Too Spursy for you?

No.

I have no objection to people cross-dressing should they wish. Good luck to them, but I wouldn’t be able to take it seriously so they wouldn’t be the sort of person I’m looking for in a potential partner.

No

I honestly don't know.

There's no objection to it so it wouldn't be a no from that perspective but I don't know if I would feel sexually attracted to them.

How often? Where?

On the fence answer but it depends I guess.

Hell no.

No.

Lol

That’s a no from me

Cross dresser - never in a million years

Gender non-conforming - absolutely. Beckham looked great in the sarong, Harry Styles is adorable, loved Adam Ant and the New Romantics in the 80s

No they always look ridiculous (to me, each to their own) so immediate ick. I wouldn't tolerate it in established relationship either - I'd worry re escalation to other behaviors /needs. These sort of needs seem to take priority.

I don't have a problem with cross dressing but for me it would be a turn off.
It's just not my type of guy.

No I wouldn’t. Just not my thing. A male friend, a brother, a relative no problem but not a romantic partner.

Love a bloke that loves to dress up.

So many blokes make less than no effort with their appearance so being with someone who loves to dress up and feel sexy with me is a huge turn on

No