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Set his cheating message as his screen saver

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Tothemoonandbackx · 26/02/2023 01:38

So my lying, cheating.....now (not that he knows it yet) EX is snoring away beside me. We have the same make and model of phone, and I'd plugged mine in earlier to charge, but didn't realise he'd taken mine out to charge his up while I was in the shower. A notification popped up, on what I thought was my phone plugged in, I went to read the message and saw it was from another women, talking about how amazing their kiss was, completely baffled, I soon realised it was his phone. Turns out not only have they shared this amazing kiss, but they've also spent nights together while he's been away at work. To say I'm heartbroken is an understatement, anger has over ridden me but I want to play it cool before I dump his sorry, pathetic lying cheating fucking ass!!!! I've set his screen saver to the last message she sent, so there's no way he can deny it, I'm waiting for him to eventually see it in the morning, am I crazy, or do I wake him up and kick him out now?????

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Am I being unreasonable?

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custardbear · 28/02/2023 12:35

Good for you! And good riddance to him!!

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WhereIsMumHiding3 · 01/03/2023 14:01

I think you're quite right not to give him any opportunity to talk to you and it sounds like you've had the closure you need having see those text messages. There's nothing more for him to say.

If he hasn't collected his belongings then send text saying "You asked to collect your belongings in x date, I put them out for you. I notice you've abandoned them. I will dispose of them in 5 days time if you do not collect by then."
Screenshot those messages archive up to your cloud. Of our ot also in email

Then you're done ✔️

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WedonttalkaboutMaureen · 02/03/2023 11:43

@MessyJ I'm not a misogynist at all, I'm an ardent feminist, but I will call out stupid opinions kicking an OP unnecessarily when I read them. Stick your head above any parapet you like but be prepared to be called to account for your opinions. Just because we are both women doesn't mean I can't find your opinion mean and say so.

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WedonttalkaboutMaureen · 02/03/2023 11:57

Valuesarekey · 27/02/2023 21:13

Wow. Cool as a cucumber. You have handled this so well OP. I’m in awe.

It will be an emotional rollercoaster but stay strong.

really hope a fox pisses on his stuff.

Snort, hope a fox, cat and badger all pissed on it!